Which is more real, Pain or Love?

@eseulhan (199)
Philippines
September 19, 2011 12:23am CST
I know when someone love its really for real. I have read a line that states love is a lie, then i get confused and think. Someone can say they love you and never mean it. There are people who say i love you only to gain access to riches and wealth. But when you cause someone pain, pain is very real and it will hurt and it will be true. We all cry, scream, and ,convulse when we are in agony, PAIN is so much real but what is love really? Do you all think love is false and pain is the only thing that is real?
16 responses
@jazzyrae (1747)
• United States
19 Sep 11
pain is real, but so is love. While some may lie about love to hurt people or gain riches, the honest people still partake in true love. I know because i am in love and it is very very real.
@yskaps (233)
• India
20 Sep 11
Pain will always be real... love will be also real but ther may be fake in love but pain can never be fake......
@jazzyrae (1747)
• United States
20 Sep 11
pain can be faked just as well as love. A guy can fake a back going out at work for time off that is fake pain
@shanemae (1025)
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
no, i beg to disagree that love is false. love is real as much as pain is real because we all feel it. love is very concrete of course i don't mean it literally but love really is real. we can feel that we love someone right? so we feel it. it really is real it can also be felt like pain. when we are in pain we convert these feelings into something that is concrete right? like drowning ourselves with tears and many other things that we could think of when we are pain also very much true when we love we tend to be very expressive too to the ones we love so that i think i made myself clear that love is real as much as pain is real.
@eseulhan (199)
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
love is real as much as pain is real, now that make sense. Well, both things do exist and its up to that person if which among those do they perceive as real or n0t. It depends on situations too.
• China
19 Sep 11
Wow, i have got to say you are such a pessimistic ,eseulhan . Let me take a wild guess. Did you just get hurt from a relationship with a man ? Honey , the world maybe is not as perfect as you think .Yet it is not that bad . Definitely ,there exists true love in the world ,which worth of all of our energy and time . You just need to have a little faith . Cheer up ,lady ! You will find your Mr Right some day . It is indispensable to go through some hardship before we gain happiness .
@eseulhan (199)
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
sorry, but i aint pessimistic. I just have that thought from reading a book. Im just telling what possibities do exist in the real world. Thanks for your opinion. Btw, i am not in that stage of hurt now.
@00fear (3203)
• United States
20 Sep 11
I think it depends on that person. Someone who wouldn't care how much their love one makes (or has). Like there was my brother's girlfriend who "loved" my brother a lot but it looks like we knew she was with him. My dad had bought my brother everything (well he was underage still) and when he bought my brother a car, it was pretty cool car from what others who knows about cars said (I don't know about them much) and he took his girlfriend out like boyfriend and girlfriend. Whenever my brother either was prohibit to use the car from bad attitude, etc, gas too low, or because it was gone for repair, etc. she would get into arguments, and even almost break up with him. Whenever he would get the car back, she would talk to him and work things out to get together again. Everytime she would do the same. I think love is real but depends how the person is. Someone who loves a rich person and won't go off leaving if that person loses his/her money. They would still be together no matter what.
@legrande (68)
• India
20 Sep 11
According to me, love is more real than pain, cos i have felt it truly in my life!!!!
@janevi (889)
• Philippines
20 Sep 11
Love and pain co-exist and they are real. When a person can love wholeheartedly, unconditionally and without limits., there will come a point that he will also experience pain. it is even said that the more you love the more that you can get hurt. But it doesn't mean that it isn't love if without pain. Pain is just a confirmation of how truly you love a person . Whatever shortcomings she/he may have you still continue to love and those shortcomings cause you pain. she/he may not even know that it is painful on your part. The reality is when you love be ready to get hurt and experience pain. I don't know what premise do you have when you ask this question . :-) happy mylotting.
@mohkanari (1957)
• India
19 Sep 11
In my opinion pain is not the opposite word of love to compare.Love is a divine passion where pain is a inevitable feeling related to happy.Love always try to make everyone happy.When one is deprived of love unhappy results.Unhappy always bring pain.If I am with an attitude to love another it brings happiness to both.If I am with an attitude of to be loved by another it may bring happiness as well as sorrow.So approach towards the passion of love is very important.Love is real so pain also.
@zerd87 (301)
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
Love is very real with pain. In this world, love comes with pain because there is no perfect in this world. But on what we must do is to cover the pain with love.
• China
19 Sep 11
Love is false? I can't agree with you . The real love is honest and sweet,maybe it's the most beautiful feeling in the world. If one own love,his life will become meaningful,otherwise,he will lose all he own.why did he think love is a lie? Maybe he was injured by love,and now he is painful,and he is disapponit at love.
@yougie (1)
• Indonesia
19 Sep 11
love is how to love someone with a full affection and mutually complement each other.
@Kikabo (80)
• Slovenia
19 Sep 11
Both are!!! The Pain and the Love. They are symbiotic and where they coexist. Something like jun jang...
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
If there is love,there is pain too.And if there is no love there is pain too..Pain is not only base on love but also in many ways... We hurts by many friends,love ones,family,illness,and etc. Sometimes people just love you because of wealth,and after that they lave it,and not a real love.. well,it is life experience to know the better life,and also life is not also perfect..
@obe212003 (2302)
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
dark is to light, plenty is to none, and love is to pain. when you fall in love, it is the most wonderful feeling one could experience in one's lifetime and yet it could be the most painful experience also when things do not push through as expected or planned. in reality, there is no such thing as a perfect world, and one has to accept both ways, good or bad, love or pain..
• India
19 Sep 11
Love as such is real and painful if we fail in it, there is no possibility that love is false, it looks false or it can be false only if it is misused by someone like you said, to get access to rich or wealthy or even to cheat someone, but love as such is genuine and true always.
@tessa9 (1086)
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
People who says they love you but does not don't count as people who really loves you because they don't love you in the first place so I do not consider what they are showing as love. Real love exist and is real. But pain also exist. I love this lyrics of a song: "Happy is a heart that still feels pain... everybody everybody wants to love, everybody everybody wants to be loved."
• United States
19 Sep 11
The real question is what is love without pain