its easy to move on.. but its hard to let go..
By karstine29
@karstine29 (694)
Philippines
September 23, 2011 9:31am CST
They say it's easy to move on.. because all you have to do is find another and learn to love him/her.. Letting go is quite hard because it is the time that you have already accepted the fact that he/she can already love somebody else.. I just can't help myself think of this.. How about you? Do you agree with the idea that moving on is easy.. while letting go is not..?
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4 responses
@funkeyguhl (1743)
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
I think both are very hard to do. It really does take time.
When you were in a relationship where everything was almost perfect and then suddenly you have to part, the acceptance is a bit difficult to do and you cannot just move on from it. Moving on does not mean finding another person to love but it is more of renewing yourself. You were part of a relationship and you have given a part of yourself to that person that you can both make it work.
This is the same case in letting go - having to hold on to something that is a special part of your life and accepting the fact that you need to part ways is also difficult.
@karstine29 (694)
• Philippines
2 Oct 11
Hmm.. seems like I realized a lot of things. I think that its up to you also. It will not take time if you'll only know how to begin a new life. Incidents happen for a reason. We must always remember that we all grow up. Maturity should reign on us.
@zerd87 (301)
• Philippines
23 Sep 11
Maybe it is correct. How can you move on if you cannot let go.
Loving someone is really difficult to let go since they become part of your life.
Letting go means your letting it be the part of your past life and it will really depend on God if you are meant to be.
Loving someone is really difficult to let go since they become part of your life.
Letting go means your letting it be the part of your past life and it will really depend on God if you are meant to be.@karstine29 (694)
• Philippines
24 Sep 11
Exactly. Well, I hope maturity could reign when this situation is happening. Maturity means accepting things the way it should be. Moving on and letting go must go hand in hand. Anyway, I really thank you for the comment. Your thoughts was highly appreciated. Have a nice day ahead.. :)
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
23 Sep 11
It will take time to move on after letting go.
Letting go doesn't mean goodbye, but letting go of someone we love is also giving ourselves freedom.
So, once we decided to let go of that person, we should learn to move on and make ourselves free from all the past.
It takes time and lot of courage to do...but, it's worth the try.
@karstine29 (694)
• Philippines
23 Sep 11
I agree with you.. It really takes time and great courage to do these things. But if we will not decide what we should do, we will be stuck on one place forever. Life has so many to give. We must always remember that there would always be good things that are about to come. Thanks a lot for sharing your thoughts. It was highly appreciated. :)
@BannedHelsing (693)
• Philippines
23 Sep 11
It's different for me. Letting go is easier. I can't really move on unless I have let go first. I can't act normal while I know I am not through with it yet, still hoping.
@karstine29 (694)
• Philippines
24 Sep 11
Well, this idea indeed differs in our own personality. It also depends on the situation. Like when you had been really fallen in love so much for a person. It is so possible to happen. Because when cupid strikes your heart, you could not really escape from it and all you could do is to follow what your heart's desire. Well, I actually didn't experience this one. But I just want to elaborate my idea.. Thanks a lot for your thoughts.. I really appreciate it.. :)
