Why does love make my tears fall?

Philippines
September 24, 2011 9:56am CST
Sometimes i dont know why i'm bothered to love when i know for the fact that it will always be the same story. Chasing a heart that will never be mine...Begging for affection that will never be given..Sacrificing for a doubtful future..And crying for the one who will never love you back. If love is the greatest thing on earth, if love can build anything, if love combines everything, if love conquers all, then why does love make my tears fall?
7 responses
@wowash95 (81)
24 Sep 11
Love may be complicated, But sometimes, It`s everything we actually got. The love to the other people, your family, best friends, someone who loves you too, even love to the animals. Finding perfect person isn`t as easy as it seems, when I say perfect I don`t mean someone that is perfect in all ways. It`s someone who will care about you, most important thing , love you back. Tears are sacrifice you have to make. And I asure you The love is the greatest thing on earth, Just takes time to find it.
@thought7 (132)
• United States
25 Sep 11
you don't find love, you give it. That absolute trust is the simplest thing to give, it's just not easy to.
• Philippines
25 Sep 11
thanks..you're right. A relationship doesn't need any promises,terms or conditions... It only needs two wonderful people...One who can TRUST, and one who can UNDERSTAND.
• Philippines
25 Sep 11
Its nice to be in love...but I'm afraid to be hurt..
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
24 Sep 11
Yes you are right about the definition of love. And we have also the same question about this. I am also asking the same thing as you ask coz love always makes me hurt and tears also. It will let me enjoy in a certain period of time then after it will makes me cry for sadness. And sometimes i hate to feel this again but i cant resists. It has magic and big magnet on human no matter how and age. I am also a victim of said Love and always a patient of Dr, love.
@thought7 (132)
• United States
25 Sep 11
sorry no, your a patient of overgrown affection. Love is an absolute, a truelly unbreakable thing that defies logic. To give someone the real thing is to say that no matter what they do, you'll love them and have faith in them. That's why it's such a great and terrible thing. Your pain is real, but that doesn't mean the love was.
• Philippines
25 Sep 11
dont feel bad if you loved a wrong person instead, be thankful and proud because just like exams, every answer make you realize the right one.
@thought7 (132)
• United States
25 Sep 11
LOVE? are you serious. It sounds like you don't know the difference between love and a very powerful affection. Love is an absolute trust. There is no uncertain future with love. There is no doubt in the trust with love. There is no such thing as love that is breakable. That's what makes love love, the absolute trust. When love isn't returned, that doesn't change anything. Love is still there, and is unbroken, it's just one sided. Love doesn't make you cry, it's that no ones loving you that makes you cry. It's the simplest thing in the world to give to somebody, it just hard, because if you choose to make something, especially a fallible somebody the object of your love, it's an incredible thing, even one sided love. It sounds like you haven't loved yet, or else you'd know that.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
24 Sep 11
It's not Love that make you cry, its the person who you love so much. We blame love when we are in pain or we feel hurt, but we forget that its not love to be blame. Who caused us pain anyway?...isn't the person?...RIGHT? So, why blame love...? blame the person not love. have a good day
@thought7 (132)
• United States
25 Sep 11
sorry, sounds lie you got xp with this one, that's not love your talking about, it's affection, which may have some serious influence, but is not an extreme. To give love is an extreme. It is an absolute, unquestionable thing. If you choose to give a person your love, it CAN'T be taken back, if it can, it's NOT love.
@Harold_ks (1673)
24 Sep 11
At least it's not you who did the wrong thing. You were always giving your genuine love but it just always happened that the receiver was not the right one. Don't lose hope and be patient, you will also meet the right guy and once it happen, your love life will also be happy. I wish you can meet him soon. God bless!
@thought7 (132)
• United States
25 Sep 11
you can choose who you love, you can't choose who you don't
@Judy890 (1644)
• United States
25 Sep 11
Well Love is not to blame. It's the guys you've met who have been giving love a bad name. Love[b][/b]-is an intense feeling of deep affection. Both partners are suppose to feel this way if not then it's not love and you should keep searching until you find it.
@thought7 (132)
• United States
25 Sep 11
wrong, but not by much. Love is an absolute thing. that's why it's unbreakable, it's way past deep affection. There is no such thing as a misplaced love, because you choose who to give it to. Once given it cant be taken back, that's why it's so powerful. Even if the subject of that love is abusing it, the love given is an absolute and CAN'T be broken.
@anonima73 (153)
• Puerto Rico
25 Sep 11
When this happens it just means you haven't found the love of your life...yet. But it's worth it I guarantee it. I have seen others find what I think might be true love and it IS worth it. True love is marvelous and as anything good in life it doesn't arrive easy. You may shed tears now but that is all for when that special someone walks into your life and becomes one forever..talk about poetic haha so yeah believe you WILL get over the suffering one day.