" I always wait for him ..."

Philippines
October 1, 2011 12:03pm CST
I am always waiting to him to comeback. I tried many things around here like to look for another but no one's fit and no one can replaced him in my heart. Well now I can do only is to wait and hope that he will come back and i always pray for our reconciliation for peace and happy life also. I hurt him maybe deeply but i am not aware of it so i am now in this situation.. I can do is to understand him and patiently wait him silently. If he come back well i am very much happy and the world for me become colorful once again. If not, that is another part of my life that i need to get ready. But i already had the answer for that "nothing to do but to accept". I choose to HOPE for i believe that still we are alive we always hope. And that is my choice... i know and feel he will come back. Friends here i wish you all the best of lovelife.,,,...
12 responses
• Philippines
2 Oct 11
are you talking about your love of your life or your friend. you get a sentimental deep feelings and if he s reading this. he may come back to understand you better. but you have positive thinking. i do hope everything will be okay and you both find each other in each arms again. i wish you all the best n this world.
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• Philippines
3 Oct 11
Thank you my friend for being positive too.. yes i am positive about this and always hoping for the best, i am now in good condition while waiting silently.. thanks a lot my friend to your participation.. have a nice day to you..
• Philippines
2 Oct 11
We all do have a choice, if u chose to wait for him then go, you have believes and hopes, but i think you must set the limit on how long you been waiting for him, does he has the new girl in his life? What if you waited too long but yet he still did not return to you? dont you think that will be late for you to move on at that time? You better move-on and go on with your life, i also been in a break up a couple a months ago and that was really hurtful, i also said to my self that i wait but i realized if we will be together that will happen in due time, though i dont know when will happen, and i guess it will never happen, but i need also to move forward and accept the facts that we can be no longer a couple or lovers anymore, he is happy, i guess, with his life s, do i need also to be happy with my life as well. And that is also you need to do now, be happy, move-on and pray that you will surface all the pain, and give you some strength to go on with a new life without him. Hope you find the real person that who would love you more than you do.. Goodluck!
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• Philippines
3 Oct 11
Yes you are absolutely right. Time will come that things can go to a right path for me. At this time i am okay and have a better decision in life so i can think well and trying to be happy now. thanks a lot and have a nice day my friend,,,
@maean_19 (4662)
• Philippines
2 Oct 11
Hi mods! I know that it is your choice to wait, hope and wish someone to come back. However, you can still wait, hope and wish by not keeping yourself to enjoy life. It is not bad to do those, and it is not bad also to do other things and be happy. The thing is that you may have been waiting, hoping and wishing something or someone who will no longer come back. Let time do its way and you should not keep yourself focused on waiting for him. You can be happy again without him. Besides, if you want him to come back, don't wait. Rather do something and be the one to initiate reconciliation. Life is too short and you should enjoy it. You may not know, there are things that you have missed out because of your waiting, hoping and wishing time. What if he won't come back? What if your feeling is wrong? Sometimes, that's one thing innate in us, we rely on our desire and not of God's will.
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• Philippines
3 Oct 11
Yes you are right and that is a good advice for me my friend! At this time i am fine and learn to adjust to my present situation so i am calm now and still waiting but in a different way.. i am still waiting but do good in my life and positive to face my new life and plan. thank you so much and have a nice day to you..!
@Hazelme (649)
• United States
1 Oct 11
My dearest friend, I don't know what's the problem why you guys aren't together anymore. You must really love him and that's okay, break-ups are hurtful and it only repairs with time. their is a famous quote that says “If you love somebody, let them go. If they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were.” Stick to this quote, it's often true. If he doesn't come back "get over it" it will take time to let go but you can do it! Families and friends are a HUGE support when it comes towards this!
• Philippines
3 Oct 11
Yes you are right my friend and i will stick to that quotes. Now i am fine and calm waiting to him if he will comeback and if not its really fine too, He is the owner of his heart and can decide to himself alone. Thanks a lot for you participation my dear friend... have a nice day with you..
• India
1 Oct 11
hello my dear friend is there any deep problem between you and your lover then just do solve it and if you are waiting to come him back then its good but just try for that and i also hope that your lover should come back trust yourself and have faith in god and good luck for future life and let me known what happen!!!
• Philippines
1 Oct 11
Yes my dear friend we had a deep problem and now i am suffering to that situation. But at this time i am now a bit ok.. And my only hope is God the he will allow us again to be with each other.. You will know i will tell if he come back.. thank you my friend and have a nice day....
• Philippines
14 May 12
Hello my dear I'm happy to let you know that we talk to each other since Dec 26,2012 :). You he was the one who sent greeting cards and a simple email. And that was exactly at Christmas eve where I am siNging at choir. From that time till now we always exchanginG words.. Now we are happy :)
• United Arab Emirates
22 May 12
hi mods i replied to post please check an reply i m waiting
@stary1 (6622)
• United States
1 Oct 11
I wish you, your hearts desire but urge you to go out and not keep yourslef secluded. Maybe you will meet another whom you could love and maybe not. Don't close yourself off to possibilities. I wish you only much happiness
• Philippines
1 Oct 11
Thank you so much my friend for your concern i really appreciate it and i know you are right. How i wish to come out of my shell but at this moment i will not and still trying to wait him. When time has come that i need to come out of it well i always remember what friends said..always.. maybe this time i am weak.. Anyway i thank you to you my friend... have a nice day to you ,,
@stary1 (6622)
• United States
1 Oct 11
You are welcome and truly I want only happiness for you. Life is just too short to pass up possibilities but of course I understand sometimes it's hard to move on. Bless you
• United Arab Emirates
6 May 12
Hi mOds how are Ya. i have seen this post so wanted to reply :) are you still waiting for him or you forgot him ? do you know that he he forgot you or he still remember you and wanted to talk to you but unable to talk with you ? any idea about thaat ? you are good lady and sweet and your heart is soft. waiting for your reply.
• Philippines
7 Mar 13
Im so sad that i saw this comment just now... everything is coming back to my mind... i know who you are now.... i wish i forget all about the past but i didn't... thanks to all the memories i had with you.. takecare
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
3 Oct 11
wow you really love this person. I hope that your love comes back to you and you would be happy together. I am sure you both will be happy with each other. But as of this time, maybe you should also try and get to know other people... goodluck to you on this.
• Philippines
3 Oct 11
Yes i am and we both are happy before but now we are in this situation ... so i better wait silently.. thank you for being positive and nice to be here in my discussion. Thanks again and have a nice day
• Philippines
2 Oct 11
I don't know what the problem is between the two of you so i don't know what is there to say. but that's how life is, having a relationship is gamble of shariing lives together, whether it will work out or not though.You can enjoy you're life while waiting for him though, sometimes chances of love the second time around is slim, but don't believe me just yet, i could be wrong though. just pray and let guide you in the next days of your life
• Philippines
3 Oct 11
Yes ! and thanks to you too also,,, i am now calm and fine waiting silently have a nice day and thanks
@shibham (17025)
• India
2 Oct 11
I wish you all the best for your love life and hope you will be attached very soon and start a new romantic life again. Well, i am not in love now and no wish to search now. Have a nice day.
• Philippines
3 Oct 11
Thank you shibham.. and thanks for your participation here on my discussion.. i am fine now and calm too,, i wish also your wish for me,, and try to search your new one,,
• China
2 Oct 11
I am sorry to hear that.But life is going on.Everything is going to getting better and better,just try to open your heart to other guys maybe one day you will find someone who you own.good luck to you.
• Philippines
3 Oct 11
Thank you my dear friend and i dont know if i can do that .. but now i am fine and calm so thanks a lot for your comments and have a nice day with you... be happy
@magicchou (163)
• China
22 May 12
Hello, there, I hope you the best wishes! I didn't you know what you have done to your Mr...But what you do now is proper, I think it is good that you have hope and want him to be back. No matter what the result will be. But such waiting shouldn't last a long period. If he comes back the live with him happily. If not, choose your Mr. Right as soon as possible. Time waits nobody. I fhave no ideal if he is your lifelong partner, time will tell. I sincerely hope that he will come back to you. Have a good day!