Seeing someone you used to be with.. *smitten
By april_dawn
@april_dawn (35)
Philippines
October 8, 2011 12:29pm CST
I saw someone I used to adore,a few hours ago.That feeling you have in your hypothalamus that seems to overflow I think is what they call love.But I don't love him as much as I do a long time ago.But I got smitten when he talked to me,it was just casual but I think it's because I remember the way he show his love to me when we are still together.Yes,I know I do not love him now but I have melted with the way he smiles at me.I think he feels the same way I am feeling too,not that I am assuming things but I really can feel it.Haha!Whatever!..He is with someone now.I hope he is just happy with him coz I have loved him for years..Goodbye my ex-lover,it's nice chatting with you a little!=D
2 responses
@galileo2008 (1141)
• Philippines
8 Oct 11
I actually got to meet my ex-boyfriend a few days before I took my board exams, and it felt so strange that I didn't feel anything for him at all. I know he has a girlfriend and they've been together for 2 years (that time when we met), and I just could not understand why I didn't feel jealous or bitter at all. We had a lunch together, had a few chitchats, wished him good luck and then we parted ways. At least there's a closure between us...and I was happy that I don't have to feel bitter towards him.
@april_dawn (35)
• Philippines
8 Oct 11
well,that's good for you.I am happy with the way you dealt with your break-up.=)..In my case,my ex and I did not have a bitter break-up,it's just that we have to be apart because we have priorities that needed to be attended first..All things good between us..=D
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
8 Oct 11
I think there will always be feelings for those we loved, especially if it was a first love. Even memories or reminders can trigger some of the feelings and I think that's all natural. After all the same thing happens when we remember pleasant things from our past..or when we hear an old song from the past we can relive feelings of the time. I say enjoy the temporary feeling wish him well and be glad you had a pleasant experience with him.
@april_dawn (35)
• Philippines
8 Oct 11
Yah right!I got your point there.I know things are design that way and as humans it is normal to feel things like that. =D
