Things will never be the same again...
By ayis12
@ayis12 (544)
Philippines
October 10, 2011 8:54am CST
before you are always wondering what if you're ex will come back.. Do he thinking about you. Or do he have thoughts about you. Does he remember everything? and blah blah.
But all of a sudden, he tried to contact you again.
At first of course you will be happy but later on, you found out that. You've changed. It's like the person you were really crazy about and meant the whole world to you turns to someone who is not so special to you anymore.
have you experienced that?
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7 responses
@r3jcorp (1382)
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
Not yet Ayis12 because my 1st boyfriend turned to be my husband and we are still together for 14 years and hoping till the end of our lives. But then, if things go wrong, It will never be the same again. Once a trust is betrayed, it will never return to normal.
@nemurikuze90 (42)
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10 Oct 11
I experienced it recently. I have this guy best friend of mine and I started to develop my feelings but it seems, he only sees me as his best friend and nothing else. It hurts me and it give me second thoughts to reflect on it. I decided to continue so that my feelings will slowly fade away and keep reminding myself, that he sees you as a friend only. Later on, every time we talk, it's like casual talk, there is sweet nothingness, yet I feel nothing at all not the same that giddy feeling. Still I was happy he's still around. And yeah, we're still friends.
@nemurikuze90 (42)
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15 Oct 11
Yeah, I agree on that. Maybe it's only infatuation because i got easily attracted especially he treats you so special. Or I only just misinterpret it. Good thing, he told me frankly before it's too late.
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
11 Oct 11
I've been told to remember the good time with my ex, not the bad ones. He was abusive and it took me a long time to leave, i'm willing to be friends for the sake of our son but that is it.
We break up with people for a reason, people come in to our lives for a reason and they also leave for a reason.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Oct 11
When I decided to separate/legal separation with my ex-hus it was clear to me that I don't have any feeling for him anymore.
So,we're just friends now and we have better relationship than before.
I never wish to be in a situation like this, but it happens.
I never thought love really fades...and it happens to me.
So, the spark was never there anymore and will never come back.
have a good day 
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
10 Oct 11
Something about relationships that when that love and or trust is broken it really never goes back to what it was once before. At least this is what I have experienced.
Reason while we are in love and having issues is that we must take sometime to fix things before it gets destroyed. Although there are some couples that can re-patch and or re-mend, somehow I find that it can never really be the same.
@ayis12 (544)
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
yeah! maybe because my trust is really broken and im not that very bad girl. I know how to forgive but its just that i find it hard to forget at all.
Im sooo stupid because when im still in that relationship, i put a lot of trust and expect our relationship to last really long.. i build my future together with that person and in the end, im very very disappointed.
@olivere99 (221)
• Sweden
10 Oct 11
Yes. I experienced that, a few years ago I was together with a nice girl, then we broke up, I diddn't remember why, but a few weeks later she was all weird and diddn't care about anyone, exept her best friend. Like she had transformed.
And now. I don't know her anymore.
Regards oliver
@peninpin (17)
• India
11 Oct 11
Dear o Dear,
you know why things are same like as its was first time, beacase we start to find the replace ment for things what we lost all the times, in my case i loved a lady from my age 15 i only got choise to say that when 27 when she have bady. i dont blame my self but i accept that happen so belived, now we just meat any party or family functions, all times we leave each other with smile(i never know what that mean) but it continous.
