Needs of a newly married girl

India
October 12, 2011 6:38am CST
Hi I have been married for years now but I always feel that through generations the needs of a wife have remained the same. Acceptance, trust and love . In the same order. Sometimes you may be willing to sacrife the rose your husband gives to you everyday if he would swap it to share his problems with you. The need to be needed is the most important requirement in my view. Any other views?
3 responses
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
12 Oct 11
I've also been married for years. As a wife, I want to get attention, affection, the same as the time at the beginning of marriage.
• India
13 Oct 11
:) we can never get enough , but I think there is some change od priority with years of marriage behind us.
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
13 Oct 11
Of course there are changes, but every woman hope, change has been rather less attention, and affection, but increasing rapidly. It's human nature, never have enough, but if the affection, or attention is reduced, I think is very reasonable, if it was not enough.
@aerous (13474)
• Philippines
12 Oct 11
Well, I think wife should be patient to understand their husband sometimes. But you know I appreciate you because you still call your man husband. I really miss that words to my wife which is now never contacted if she is really find or what...
• India
13 Oct 11
It is nice to see a man respond to the discussion as that may give it another perspective .When you say patient , do you mean the initial years or do you mean occasionally all through the marriage?
• Australia
12 Oct 11
I beleive that understanding plays a big part in any relationship, but especially in a marriage relationship. I agree with you about needing to be needed. When my husband of one and a half years needed me and shows appreciation for me, it is so much better than getting anything physical from him. Acceptance, trust and love I also agree are very important.
• India
13 Oct 11
True understanding is indeed a foundation virtue