I was left out...
@Bianca_mergillano (1067)
Philippines
October 12, 2011 8:38am CST
I feel so sad today. I was about to see my suitor but I didn't. Anyway I like him already. Here's the story. I was with my friend today. We went out to look for a job. The he suddenly called and I was so excited to see him. We're supposed to meet in the afternoon but we didn't because when I told him that I was with my friend. He didn't show up. The worst part is when I got there, he's not there anymore.He left without saying anything. I tried to call his number but he's not answering it. That was my first experience wherein someone did it to me. haha I feel like to cry. Yes, I did cry because I can't help it and I don't care if people see me crying. Anyway, I just shared it so that at least it'll lessen the hard feelings I had for him. :D
14 responses
@rjkolth (27)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
Sharing what you feel inside is a great therapy in time like that. Don't feel sad, I know it hurts but if he really care for you and love you, he would not do such thing like that.But before you do some violent reaction(lol) give him a chance to explain if you got the opportunity to talk to him again. He might have a good reason why he did that ( I hope so). If you feel that he doesn't deserve you, just keep in mind that it's his loss for leaving you. You're are still young, he is not the only guy here in the world. Remember that There's always a new beginning when a story ends. Cheer up girl!
@Bianca_mergillano (1067)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
Thanks for responding. He talked to me this morning. He loss his patience while waiting for me. It took a bit long for me to go to our meeting place because its raining but he did say that he's going to wait for me then he would just leave? Huhu. Yes. It did help me to lessen the pain that I feel inside. Again, thanks for responding. Have a great day.
@rjkolth (27)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
Doesn't he knows that you are worth waiting for? Smile Girl... To bad he didn't see the effort that you did, although it's raining you still went to your meeting place. But this doesn't mean you should break up with him, if you want to save your relationship with him try to say sorry to him, tell him you didn't mean to be late. If he really loves you he will understand. It's common in a relationship to have a simple misunderstanding, sometimes circumstances like that strengthen a relationship, so cheer up girl, I know everything will be alright.
@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
He might not be comfortable with hanging out with one of your friends and he just wanted to go with only the two of you. But I cannot see any bad reason why he did not showed up on your meeting. If he really loves you, then he should get along with the people dear to you and he must accept who are your friends but necessary make friends with them also. Think about it.
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@Bianca_mergillano (1067)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
Yes. you're right. He should have shown up to meet my friend too if he really likes me. I guess he's really not worth it. But its okay. I have a lot of friends to cheer me up. Anyway, thanks for responding and have a great day.
@Bianca_mergillano (1067)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
Oh thanks. Yes. I agree with what you've said. He could have waited if he really likes me. Well, I guess it won't happen again. Thanks for responding my friend. Have a great day and God Bless.
@mhelsdelacruz (160)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
there are really guys who are like that, they just left you in the place where you agree to meet. .just hang.out with your friends and forget about this guy. .
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@Bianca_mergillano (1067)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
Yes. That's what I'm going to do. Have fun with my friends and forget about him because he's not worth it. Anyway thanks for responding. have a great day.
@SmilezKiwi (123)
• New Zealand
13 Oct 11
oh i wouldn't cry over a guy like that hes not worth a tear.
Have u ever met him b4 in your life?
I would say dont let a man control your life because those types wont change.
move on and fine a man that likes your friends. hes not worth it.
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@Bianca_mergillano (1067)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
Yes. I won't cry again just because of this guy. Yeah you're right I guess he's really not worth it. I also want a guy who would like to meet my friends too. I've met him before and he's nice but as time passes, I think I don't like his attitude. Anyway thanks for responding. Have a great day.
@rmendoza123 (637)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
Maybe there's an emergency that's why he cannot answer your call. Just look unto the brighter side.
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@Bianca_mergillano (1067)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
He did call me this morning and he said he left because he can't wait. He lost his patience but he said he's going to wait for me. But I was not that late only 3 mins. late I guess. Maybe he doesn't want me to bring my friend along with me that's why he left. But its okay. It is done. Anyway, thanks for responding.
@braveheart07 (2601)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
That is really sad to know. I am just really doubtful as to why he does not reply on your call or maybe you have texted him too and does not reply you either.
There are a lot of things that you need to investigate further. But if I was in his shoes, courting with you and as a serious suitor, I would not do that kind of action. He is not gentleman and it seems that he is not really serious on you. Hope you will be able to see this negative impression about him.
Right now, I hope you have already recovered from crying for that guy. If he is like that, then he is not worth to be your bf.
Take care and may GOD's protection be without always.
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@Bianca_mergillano (1067)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
YES. ABSOLUTELY. I know he's not worth it. There's a lot of guys out there better than him and would not do that thing to me. Anyway, that's what I'm doing. I'm trying my best to find out if he's really serious on me then if he's not, its okay. I'll look forward for someone else. Thanks for responding. Have a great day too and God Bless.
@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
13 Oct 11
terrible! i have never actually went out to meet somebody and gotten stood up, but i have had a guy cancel dates (3 weekends in a row might i add...). needless to say that relationship didnt last lol :P but i dont wanna be with somebody who pretends like they want to be with you and then makes excuses why they can't be with you...
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@Bianca_mergillano (1067)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
Yes. I agree with what you've said especially in this part, "i dont wanna be with somebody who pretends like they want to be with you and then makes excuses why they can't be with you..." He's really like that. I'm so confused if he really likes me or not because sometimes he's sweet and sometimes he's not. Sometimes I feel like he really wants me but then do things that can hurt me. I don't get it. If this happens again, there's no reason for me to see him. Anyway thanks for responding. Have a great day.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
4 Nov 11
I hate to hear that he treated you like that. I think it was pretty rude. Maybe he is not the best choice if he is going to act like that over something as simple as being with a friend when he called. I do wish you luck and if I were you, I wouldn't shed another tear. He should be the one crying for hurting your feelings like that. Take care.
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
12 Oct 11
You must be truly starting to fall for this guy, huh. That's the reason why you are hurt. I can understand that. It is OK.
Just give him the benefit of the doubt, maybe he was just shy to meet you with your girlfriend since he is just a suitor and not your bf yet. Or maybe, he did not anticipate that you'd go straight to him. You did not tell him, you'd want to see him still, did you?
Maybe, there was just miscommunication between you two. Give it another try. Besides, there'll always be next time.
Just give him the benefit of the doubt, maybe he was just shy to meet you with your girlfriend since he is just a suitor and not your bf yet. Or maybe, he did not anticipate that you'd go straight to him. You did not tell him, you'd want to see him still, did you?
Maybe, there was just miscommunication between you two. Give it another try. Besides, there'll always be next time. @Bianca_mergillano (1067)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
Thanks for your response. Yes I think I'm falling for him that's why I was hurt. He called me this morning and he did say that he went away because he can't wait. It took a bit long for me to get to our meeting place because its raining. He doesn't have a lot patience. That's what I don't like about him but I still keep on liking him and I don't like the way I feel. Anyway thanks for responding. Have a great day. :D
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
12 Oct 11
What here happened is only because of immaturity. Both of you are slightly wrong - you could have explain the things in detail that you are already for an interview and may take some time to reach for him and at the same time, he could have wait or keep it for another occasion as well. Do you think you can manage with such a person in later part of life? We all should understand each other once we grown up. If this is the way he deal with our matters, how success would be our life?
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@Bianca_mergillano (1067)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
Okay thanks for responding. Thanks for sharing your side. Next time it wouldn't happen again. Have a great day anyway.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
12 Oct 11
He should have at least sms you to say he isn't fine hanging out with your friend, instead he chose to stand you up without saying a thing. I wonder what he'll tell you next...
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@Bianca_mergillano (1067)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
Yes. But its okay. Now I know, maybe he's not yet ready to meet my friend or maybe he was just shy that's why he ran away. Haha. But if this happen again, I don't want to see him anymore. Anyway thanks for responding. Have a great day.
@rjkolth (27)
• Philippines
14 Oct 11
Good day, I just want to know if you and your suitor are okay now? did you already say Yes to him?
