living, histrionic,
By Tina
@walkingcat (34)
China
October 14, 2011 12:47pm CST
what's about your living recent? my living is intricate and histrionic. Two months ago, I have boyfriend and be soft and love me. He did would like to visit his parents with me. But after visiting, his parents do not like me as his GF because they thought their boy can have a better wife than me. So he gave up! I can not believe, this one is the same person who said likes me for six years already and hope marry me! Yes, I left. I can live a life without own house, own car, eat well or wear famous, but I do need my man love me and treat me as his whole world.
Dramatically, my another friend, a boy who told me he will be married. But this one was in me very much just two months ago. It's sound so unbelievable, but it's true. He will marry a girl who just knew for 4 month since he knew her to they married. And they decided to marry at two month later after they met. What's imprudent and foolish decision! He even do not like her but have to marry her just because they made love once time after drinking! I thought I was hearing a story when I heard he said about this fact. And the which is ludicrous that he said he likes me actually, and he really regretted. I thought this matter just can happened on heroine in TV play before. Now it's me! Yes, I can't believable but I have to say it's the life. I should be strong-minded more and take care myself well as before. Because it's own life and I just can hold my life by myself. Also hope both of them can be the master of themselves. Do not live for others any more and have goods days then.
The same for all on mylot.
1 response
@lampar (7584)
• United States
27 Mar 12
Either You got yourself a childish man as your boyfriend, that may be is the problem; he can't marry you if his parent say 'NO' to him even though he is in love with you, as he may still in need of his parent permission to marry a woman he love OR he is not really loving you all this while but just said so to win your heart and mind. May be this turn out to be good for you, at least you don't have to put up with his lies or immaturity any more. You can be a stronger person and live the way you want without him and his parent around, forget about him, it is not worth wasting your time thinking about him, he is just a loser that need his parent beside him to make decision for his life and happiness, there is many more men out there that can love you and still be able to decide for himself whehter to marry you or not, don't get discourage by this one immature boy on love relationship, he is just a boy. 
@walkingcat (34)
• China
28 Mar 12
yes, thanks at first. He is just a boy and I have been out of that for a long time. You must have mentioned this task started since last summer and now is new spring. I am realy good, and I knew that's fact (tittering). OK, joking apart, I have new boyfreind now and he really hope to live with me in the future. Maybe somedays later, we will talk with each others' parents and have married :)
About that ex-BF, I filled charge in his mobilphone how much as his parents gave me that the same day we met. I thought I can not keep them to stand on my dignity. However, I came up this topic some time, he just said sorry and no need do that. So I have to pay back through this way. You know what, I felt so good and relex and self-confident after done that.
I won't put yesterday's garbage in today's bag. So any better idea do you have :)
