when you love, you end up hurting

Philippines
October 17, 2011 4:12am CST
I wonder how most of the times, the person who loves the most, still ends up hurting the most. I do not want to be cynical about love, but when you see how often people around you being hurt just because they fall of the expectations of the people they love, they end up being alone. Or sometimes, they are in a very difficult situation like loving someone who already has another, and no matter how many times they knock their heads off in order to be awaken from the stupidity of trying to make someone love them too, they still go in circles waiting for that somebody to value them. If you are in any of that situation, how are you going to deal with it? but please try to be in the shoes of the person when you try to give a response...thanks
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
18 Oct 11
Once you are in love, be prepared to get scarred as they say. It's not love that hurt and gives you pain anyway. It;s the person whom you love. So, never blame love...you only got the wrong person. have a good day
@sexyice (873)
• Latvia
17 Oct 11
When we love, we always are very pregnable, because we always give other people all, but when this people hurts... we feeling bad. And oftten we scared leave people who hurting, we just dream (maybe this man will be better). I think in true love people just love and don't hurt. And in difficult situations own lovers just help us...
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
17 Oct 11
everyone loves. anyone who loves almost always in pain because he loves to suffer. love is a scary thing sometimes hurts us a lot of it. We sometimes very happy and we are very happy. just love every moment presents us many surprises, and we never know at some point we do not know what to do and what to do. So our love brings happiness and pain. interesting discussion. nice day!