Saying Goodbye to a friend
By knittingpro
@knittingpro (289)
Canada
October 17, 2011 4:14pm CST
Saying good bye to a friend whether your on good terms or not is great. When you know you've all you can and the 2nd party takes no blame there is no other recourse to take.
I've tired and tired to be civil and I get met with you did this and you do this. And I did nothing wrong. It showed me that no change has been made in this person and she is still very bitter. It takes two to cause problems two to fix it and one to end it. Im nothing good to this person but a door mat. I know they will have changed when they take some responsibility. I know they are reading this and I hope they know that they are to blame as well. When you say you've changed you have to prove it and not still take no responsibility. I don't want that sort of person in my life and they have proven no change has been made by what they write. Words are powerful. Taking your share of the blame shows maturity. You can write all you want you have changed but their actions prove other wise. I was used as a door mat as well but they don't see that. All one side which has been the norm. I don't pretend to be happy as I am. when you have to spin tales to pretend your happy that's sad.
3 responses
@zukichucha (991)
• United States
16 Dec 11
Are you no longer friends for good? I hope by now you have made up with this person! It is sad to lose a friend. I wish you luck in trying to salvage the relationship.
@zukichucha (991)
• United States
16 Dec 11
I am sorry you have to go through this. I guess it's fit the best though. You definitely don't need someone like that in your life! Good riddance
@knittingpro (289)
• Canada
6 Feb 12
I'm not sorry to be honest. It weeds out the people you don't need in your life. It's a great lesson to have learned. I now an very choosy on who I make friends with. I now have a great circle of friends without any drama. No one trying to up one another. It's a great result when you have had to deal with the devil him/herself!
@knittingpro (289)
• Canada
16 Dec 11
It's over. I've taken the higher road and apologized for things I didn't do just to make peace. Yet this friend is on here posting things about me that are untrue. I will not be a player in the game. Actions speak louder than words and this person will never change. They are what they are and that's a bitter fool with nothing better to do that act like a donkey!
@huilichan8 (1378)
• Singapore
17 Oct 11
That's sad. Some pp will never change no matter what and that's a sad fact of life.
@knittingpro (289)
• Canada
20 Oct 11
It is sad. What's even sadder is when they try to convince you they have changed yet their actions prove other wise!
@kyrararen (601)
• Indonesia
18 Oct 11
it is sad to know that you lost your friendship. but I wish you luck for you have get rid of that kind of person. at least you have God for your friend still.
@knittingpro (289)
• Canada
20 Oct 11
It is sad. I did all I could but they chose not to take responsibility for anything which makes it hard to be maintain a friendship. When people make a choice to not believe you there is nothing you can do but move on. I don't like having any relationships whether they are over unresolved. Some can go on with not resolving issues but that at the end of the day is their issue.
