Is MARRIAGE essential ????????

@Dassodils (2010)
India
October 20, 2011 10:40am CST
Is marriage essential in life??? Some people are very sad that they didn't got a partner through marriage...I am not interested in married life.... Can't people live lonely ???? If we are not married, We can enjoy life at it's maximum.We will be free birds.....In married life, the partner will disturb you in everything.. What is your opinion ?????Are u joining with me???
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14 responses
@koperty3 (1876)
20 Oct 11
I don't think so that it is. I'm with my partner 5 years. We live together as long and we don't feel the pressure to be married. Maybe one day but now we have no time for this. We love each other and have respect to each other. If we have the paper or not this is no one business.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
20 Oct 11
Koperty...Nice to know that..You got a happy married life.And you are trying to keep a healthy relation between your husband as long as you can. But most of the relations are distroying today....That's the reason for my discussion towards married life......But i hope you can lead a happy married life with such great person...Thank you..
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@koperty3 (1876)
20 Oct 11
Well I'm not married. Relationship can be destroyed by lack of trust, being unfaithful, lack of time for each other. I think my partner and me are happy together.
• India
20 Oct 11
Marriage is the one thing that resembles the ......what? i'm confused, and so marriage is. It's a confusion if you don't get a suitable life partner, that's why in Indian culture it takes more time to fix a marriage than doing a marriage...but if you got the right one you can feel the heaven in earth..... And yes, spending whole life alone is better option than living with unsuitable lifepartner, and i prefer that 'cause today's world is perfect for that type of life
@lijoos (346)
• India
12 Nov 11
i think you are realy crazy. man is a social being and marriage is a part of our life.we can live without marriage.but the pleasure wont last.....we will regret oneday for being not married.married life is a different feel. our family our kids then only we will have some responsibilities. you love kids but you wont marrie and you dont need your on kids.'its unbelivable pressure to become a mother. and you are write that partner will disturb you.you wont feel it as disturbance if you love him i am sure.and those disturbances and little quarrels are realy nice. i dont like arranged marriages...its like you said. in arranged marriages its very difficult to have our soulmate. i will find my soulmate and have a love come arranged marriage. i prefer you that. life is not at all enjoyment it has its seriousness,responsibilities,sadness,disturbances,happiness everthing then only we can have a meaningfull life. free birds are not at all free they are alone.helpless... and can you find me a freebird in the nature?youcant only we can see lovebirds. and have you heard about "ottayana"elephant he is a freebird but what he do all wrong. dassodils...dream about a partner who loves you caring you and understanding you and dream about your kids .you will say i wanto marrie now..hahaha by take care.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
12 Nov 11
Oh no......Lijoos....Are you comparing me with elephant???Oh very bad.... Now I think that marriage is good..If our partner will not be as in our imagination,Then how will you be happy in life ????We can't select a person through love marriage too...There will not have any support from both families.....Right?????
@lijoos (346)
• India
12 Nov 11
ya its better to be a freebird anju i feel so.nothing working for me...no love.i dont want to marrie. sorry you are not that elephant thats me.dont you feel. if love is true families getlost.they will not go anywhere will be with us ...after some days...,family is not a big problem.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Dec 11
Hi! Who said that marriage is essential. It is not. If you wish to live a life without a life partner, it is perfectly fine. Remember, you should continue your attitude for the years to come and should not change your stand.
@dodo19 (47117)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
28 Nov 11
I think that this will depend on the individual. To some people, marriage is essential, while for others, it isn't as important.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
28 Nov 11
Ya...I have no interest on marriage...Thanks...
@atleya (946)
• Indonesia
25 Oct 11
married or not. I think this is choice of someone. While someone can find soulmate, they choose to marry and be happy forever. For some other, it is to difficult to find soulmate, and then choose to life alone, enjoy life as maximum as possible, free as birds. Whatever, as long as we can life happily, no problem with married or not.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
26 Oct 11
Yaaa....Thanks Atleya for such nice reply...I like to live as a bird you said... Thank you..... :-)(-:
@Zer0Stats (1147)
• India
8 Dec 11
Nothing is essential in life.We have one life should live it to the fullest by own way.Every one has a different lifestyle,if you aren't married you won't get the happiness from a marriage,but if you're married you'll lose the happiness of being a single one,just like a sentence,the one in the encircle city want to go outside but the one out of the encircle city want to go inside it.
• United States
27 Nov 11
Yes and no. Yes I agree that not Everyone Has to marry . And no, I I don't believe every non married person will be lonely. It is possible to find the one you want to be with an Not marry. It is possible to find a partner who is willing to share and not disturb you. it is rare but not impossible. with that said, I believe a person can have a fun , fulfilled live without a romantic partner or spouse. It is up to each person. What is sad is when a person who always wanted to marry Never gets married Or a person who Wanted to remain single , gets married.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
Marriage is not really essential to all of us. There is no law forcing us to get marriage. Even the bible did not force us to get marry... This is depend on the person I think. If the person wants to get marriage...that is her/his decision...
• Mexico
24 Oct 11
Hi Dassodils: I think that no style of life is perfect. When you live with someone and you want to stay forever, your communication skills are important and you need to work together for your love. When you are single you feel more free but at the same time, you sometimes would love to have kids and to have a partner who can share time with you. We can't have everything. ALVARO
• India
28 Nov 11
Family life is important, you can select your parter with more care, many good peoples are there, You can try your best, you should ready to take the risk to make generation which is important for continius life in earth, one Maharishi said our childrens are our rebirth.
@ohid2u (145)
• Bangladesh
28 Nov 11
I don't wanna join with you.Cause as a man i wanna make my own family oneday.
• India
22 Oct 11
No i will not agree with you... Why your partner disturbs you in everything if you are doing correct thing??? Now it will be nice to be alone but once you are alone where no one exists for you you will feel the loneliness.. To avoid that our parents want us to be married..
@huilichan8 (1378)
• Singapore
22 Oct 11
I am all for singlehood. And I agree that we can enjoy life to e max.:)
@cloudflix (112)
• United States
28 Nov 11
I don't think marriage is essential. But some people are raised to stringently believe that it is, and in that sense, for them, it is essential if they are unable to shake that idea from their minds. Personally, I have been with the same person for over 8 years, but we have no intention of getting married. We are best friends and our paths in life are following the same intentions right now. However, we feel that making a plan to stay together might stifle our potential and change the already successful dynamic we have. Plus, it would be expensive. I think, too, though, that if two people have a successful and happy relationship and they want to get married, they will want to cooperate with each other and will have their own paths and respect each other so that they won't disturb each other in everything. They will come together when they want and need to, and will respect each others' space otherwise. Also, you are right, people can live alone, too. That is perfectly fine and it is still possible to have lots of friends and family or even prefer being alone and still be happy and content. :)