How to communicate properly to the Men especially Indian men

@siri26 (331)
India
October 26, 2011 11:51am CST
Actually in India if we talk to men normally they take it as lenience and if we don't talk to them mean if we maintain a distance they call us a proud/ ego. For example recently I visited Physiotherapist who is younger than me and in a discussion he said he tried a lot to grow in his carrier with is new research and somebody disappointed him and he was very depressed. So I just gave him moral support. He is misusing that and he is behaving like a very close person to me.
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@umabharti (3976)
• India
26 Oct 11
Some do misuse some do understand Siri.We can not say what they actually need. They actually say that women are hard to understand. Men are the ones who are realy hard to tackle with and say what they actaully want . Dont know why a man asks to see any women in the first talk or chat.They want to see the girl ,why what makes them ask some thing like that,cant they chat like that ,cant they do friendship without seeing a girl.
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@siri26 (331)
• India
27 Oct 11
Hi Uma, Now a days it's so hard to find good guys. Don't know hwy people take everything for granted. I just helped him because at that time he was ready to gave up his career. I thought I can give him some moral support and he can continue his work. But may be he is not really under that pressure. May be he acted. I think i have to think twice before I offer help to men.
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@umabharti (3976)
• India
27 Oct 11
Nothing like that siri,befriendly and tell him very frankly about ur view,dont make enemies when u can have good friend of every person Just let him or her understand what ur opinion is about him or her ,everything will go on fine,if u try avoiding or doing some harsh behaviour u will not get one enemy but many will be in that list. Take it for granted siri let ur self comfortable,the more u tense the more u r into problem.But be sure to be frank or try a little play in a good manner not hurting.
@siri26 (331)
• India
27 Oct 11
You are right. I won't be harsh but will think harsh.
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@Amfyre (515)
• Canada
26 Oct 11
I think this topic should have gone in discussions under "India" As for men there, they are so different from Men here in North America period. From my point of view and from what I understand and have seen...men from India expect women to be submissive, mild, meek, and expected obedience... I think it maybe an ingrained behaviour
@siri26 (331)
• India
26 Oct 11
Ya. Is it possible for me to change category? And what ever you said is correct. But I am asking about the situations like What I faced?
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@piya84 (2591)
• India
26 Oct 11
Our society is not that much liberated yet.People born in metro city are open minded.But men born there in small towns,villages are what you describe.
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@Amfyre (515)
• Canada
27 Oct 11
Sorry, I got side tracked Siri! So you are seeing a physiotherapist for some kind of injury and you started to talk to him and he gave you personal information and found support from you. Now he is interested in more! If I understand it correctly. If this is the case he is no longer professional and you should seek a new physiotherapist. For one if you are seeing this person in a professional setting he should not be giving you personal information about himself and secondly he should definitely not be seeking any kind of involvement with you. He is being unprofessional...