do you care that your girlfriend is a virgin or not

Hi there... Were you virgin when you got engaged with your girl??? I guess not, right? Look, you slept with other people before even meeting each other. So it does not matter now. What if, she started speaking the way you do? I care not... I understand that before meeting me she might have met other people too. I maybe her right choice, but she might have made mistakes before meeting me. So I accept it!

absolutelly i care a lot of virginity, for me is meant a woman self-regard. Psychologically, if any women not a virgin she will easy to get seduced by another man in the future. So, my suggest to you, if you still court with her just brake her up and don't wait until you get married or you will be felt sorry for her, this is the right time for you to make decision;)

Its a little complicated and it becomes more & more complicated it you think about it. Just consider the fact that you are not her first or last boyfriend and vice versa. Also consider that she is honest and told you about it otherwise you may have never known it. Just enjoy the time you spend with her and don't let her or your past to spoil it.

good day! Does your girlfriend care if you are virgin or not? I think you are unfair at first she already told you showing how honest she is but she ended up with a narrow minded person like you I believe that you are fool, fool enough not to accept her. If you love someone, you'll accept their past. Who they once loved, who they once dated. Don't judge them for their past.

For me friend, it doesn't give me care if my girlfriend is still virgin or not. What I care most is that, she should tell me first or honest with me. The important is we love each other, and accepts anything in the past and face the present and the future together.

I have questions instead of answers. Why are you in a relationship with her in the first place? What's important to you, the love you share or the past that you didn't share? Is her being not a virgin anymore more important than your love for her? Are you still a virgin? Which would you rather have her do: lie about her virginity or be honest about it? No human being is perfect. There is no bad person, only people who made wrong decisions and bad choices. If you were in her shoes, would you want her to make a big deal about it? We all have our past. But the most important thing is the present. DO you love her?

Your being unfair not just for your girlfriend but also to a lot of women who is not a virgin or still a virgin, do you consider that she had a really have a hard time to tell you her past? why dont you accept her? do you love her because you think she is still a virgin? why you did not ask before you want to be together? How come she cheated you she did that with her past so, no cheated will do during your time. If you cannot accept her and love her then let her go, you don't deserve her. So, she can find someone who really deserve her love. If you still love her then accept her past and love her past, you do have also your past.

I understand about your feelings. However,consider her honesty. Confessing that she is not a virgin anymore is a sign of honesty and not cheating. I was a virgin when I married my husband. But,it's not enough to make our marriage last. He keeps cheating and slept with other girls. Considering he is not a virgin when I married him,yet I never mind it all. What's wrong if your gf is not a virgin anymore? She met and love someone before,and her virginity is also not enough reason for the guy to stay. If virginity is the only main thing that matters to you,then,tell your gf about it and never give her hope. Next time,ask a girl if she is a virgin before courting her.

If you were a virgin and the girl turned out to be a non-virgin, then i understand the reason for your anger. even id get pissed if i waited to share my first time with someone and i turn out to be just another guy in her life. But if youre not a virgin then you got no rights to be angry for her not being virgin.