no need for gf's

@redik11 (131)
Norway
November 5, 2011 1:16pm CST
i never had a girlfriend, and about two years i tought i had to get one. but now i realized i dont need no gf. a message to all who think they need one: u dont. what ur opinion to this?
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7 responses
• Philippines
5 Nov 11
Well, its your own life. You always have your own decision. I am actually not against or so called anti-love. But I also want to have a decision not to have a boyfriend forever. I don't know, I am just contented of my life right now. And I think a boyfriend will only add stress in my life. I am not bitter. But this is only based on how I perceived life. I think I can be happier if I'll be single forever. But I am not closing doors.. I am just waiting for someone who could break my first paln in life. However for you redik11, it's good that you don't need a GF. I, too can relate because I used to be an independent person. But just hold the thought that love will come unexpectedly, so don't close your mind about having a girlfriend.
@redik11 (131)
• Norway
5 Nov 11
well, love arrived some years ago, i'm sure it was love cuz i got blinded, i tried but it didnt work. the chick dint like me. so now i regret asking her out cuz i realize she was not my type. i started to not care anymore. right now the only thing in my mind is how miserable the world is.
• Philippines
5 Nov 11
Don't think that way. The end of love is not the end of life. You maybe unfortunate with that girl. But don't loose hope. There are still a lot of things to think of this world. I think you're just so bitter. And I think you have not moved on yet. There are still a lot of opportunities that would come your way. So be open to it. As has been said, love will be sweeter the second time around. I have not been into a relationship ever, the only thing that I have experienced is having a mutual understanding with a boy. Our story didn't end up happily because I just don't know what I want in life. That could also be the reason of the girl you just had. Wait for another chance in love redik11.. Life is too short to be stucked up in past.
@redik11 (131)
• Norway
14 Nov 11
why does people call love a sweet thing? love makes people kill, makes people cry and hurt themself. love leads to sorrow and pain.
@aerous (13474)
• Philippines
16 Nov 11
If you prepare not to have a girlfriend, my friend. I support your decision because it much be better not have one that to have one who makes you cry or hurt... It's hard to find a girl friend who is reliable and trusted. But if you found a lady that really loves and respect you. Don't close your heart and get that girl who loves you more...
@redik11 (131)
• Norway
17 Nov 11
nah im not closing my heart, i'm just really not into that stuff at the moment
@aerous (13474)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
Well, I appreciate your disposition in life. I know there still a good lady out there and hope you found it when you finally want to settle...
@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
5 Nov 11
You don't need one if you still have not found anyone. I doubt if you will still say that once you meet someone and feel you're in love!
@buddha3 (1029)
• India
5 Nov 11
hahaha:D you are absolutely right enelym:) It's the sour grape story. If you don't have it you tend to say such things:P
@redik11 (131)
• Norway
5 Nov 11
i had love. love is like life. they both sux
• United States
5 Nov 11
You're right....I don't need one either!
@redik11 (131)
• Norway
14 Nov 11
good u realized it. but remember dont spoil ur chances, but yet dont put ur life into this love. it only leads to misery
@iuliuxd (4453)
• Romania
5 Nov 11
I think you need to find a good looking chick and i`m sure she will make you think different.
@redik11 (131)
• Norway
5 Nov 11
i did. i stopped care for that crap cuz it didnt work out
@buddha3 (1029)
• India
5 Nov 11
Yes. There is no need of one. But somewhere in your heart you will be feeling you want a gf :P I too don't have a gf and never had:) come on mate, we are friends hehe:)
@redik11 (131)
• Norway
5 Nov 11
looks like where in the same boat bro.
@surfer222 (1715)
• Indonesia
6 Nov 11
i have a friend who never had a gf and never bother trying to get one, but as a friend he is a good friend and he didn't see life the way you did. i agree that having a gf or a wife is not everything in life, but i think you should try find something that interest you in this life. My friend find his passion in 3D graphics, after watching him doing 3D, it got my attention and now i also enjoy doing some 3D in my free time. Maybe you should search for things that interest you and just focus on them... it worked for my friend.