How do you think of the rich marry the poor,or reverse

China
November 8, 2011 8:16pm CST
Last night,I have a strange dream.I dream I married a richer.I think is impossible absolutely.Because their life is so diffirent ,they lived in diffirent world,then their thought will be diffirent.The result is unhappy,and they will divorce.Since I think I was a resonable person,I think it is will be happen never. Although,in fairy of tale,prince and Cinderella got married,and they lived a happy life.It is unreal.In my childhood,I read so much story, I admired them for a long time.But when I growing up ,times passed away,life teach me it is untrue. How do you think about it?
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
9 Nov 11
Rich or poor, can not be the size of the wedding. marry a rich man poor man, it's not unusual. Happy or not their marriage, not as rich, or because of the poor, but because they loved each other, and mutual respect, each other.
• China
10 Nov 11
In the world,is there true love?How long they can keep it ?
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
11 Nov 11
I do not know, whether there is true love in this world. From my experience, and from observing the situation around me, it's very difficult to find true love.
• United States
9 Nov 11
I don't always think a rich individual marrying a poor individual is a recipe for disaster. It all depends on the personality of the two people and if they connect or not. I don't believe money has anything to do with character. Of course some people let their success get to their heads, but if someone has money and is very down to earth, there is no reason why they can't fall in love with someone less fortunate in the financial department. Who knows, the person who isn't as rich may open the mind of the rich person and help them become more down to earth if they aren't already. I think love happens no matter what financial group you fall in.
• China
9 Nov 11
Maybe there is love between them.But diffirent circulation result diffirent character.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
11 Nov 11
Well, most of the rich marry a poor lady did not have a good result. Because as relationship goes longer. The poor lady suffer more and more because she realize that money did not give her a happy life but sufferings... Money did not give us whole happiness in life... Vice Versa the poor lady was change. When she though that money give her everything and does something who is arrogant enough and violated the will of her husband...by having an affairs to anyone else... Only some ladies live with a happy life with their husband. Most of the poor ladies who marry a rich man will suffer more and not happy
12 Nov 11
I believe that it is possible for some and most are not, but there's nothing wrong with that I mean maybe it is their fate to be together as they say all in love is fair and riches has nothing to do with their love for each other.
@boyuancy (1708)
• India
11 Nov 11
Agree with you liumirror. In some point or the other they ought to face differences and the topic comes up. So yes rich should marry the poor and vice versa.
@jtj_hello (627)
• Philippines
10 Nov 11
First of all, I think you have a misconception about marriage. People get marry because of love, and it should always be the primary thing that will bond two lovers for the rest of their lives. If you think that fairytale don't happen in real life then I think you are wrong again. Few years back, It was on the news that a princess in Japan married a commoner, which demerit her the throne. I was so inspired by that story and i think everyone should have been. The princess love her man that's why she turn her back on all her inheritance just to be with him. So if you don't believe in fairytales then at least believe that love is the foundation of a successsful mariage.
@kaeirole (668)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
everything is possible for me..it only depends on what you can do to achieve your goal..fairytales are just stories for the young minds..it somehow help them develop their brain also..but of course, fairytales are far from reality..that's why they are called fairytales or bedtime stories because those are just the product of our imaginations.. regarding your concern, i believe a rich can marry a poor and vice versa..but it always depends on the people involved and also their respective families..
• Philippines
10 Nov 11
This reminds me of the song "Cowboy take me Away" by Dixie Chicks. Anyway, this could work best if the rich one is the girl. The boy will take care of him. I'm sure the boy is used to considering the essence and worth of a woman. I will pity a girl who will marry a rich man. What she needs to do with her life is keep understanding her partner. But that is love, it doesn't matter who the other person is. There are no boundaries, no rules, no standards.