November 11, 2011 1:43pm CST
I wonder how many of the people that complain in these discussions really take the time to do something about it? Is this just a place for people to air their grievances or do they actually do something about it? I for one believe in being proactive and setting the good example for others to follow. If I do not then I feel that I do not have the right to complain.
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18 Nov 11
Setting a good example is certainly a fine stance to take. I think discussions can go in many different directions where people can agree or disagree with each other and providing they are respectful to each other still can have a good discussion. If people disagree, does it nessassarly mean they are complaining? Is this what you meant or something else? There, I am not totally sure about the meaning of right to complain, so just asking. The other possiblity is at sometime in their life, they have been hurt and want just to vent, I guess.
19 Nov 11
I never ridicule people for their opinion. Jowever the point I was making was about the people that complain and take no action of themselves. Everyone goes through difficulties, but those that come out smelling like a rose are those that learn from their experiences and realize that life is about learning.
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12 Nov 11
May be some people don't read the term of Mylot or can't tell the different between complaining and discussing. They join Mylot hoping to voice their grivances and complaints for the whole world to hear, they believe there is a complaint department in Mylot that can handle every love-hate relatiohship problem with husband or lover and the adm. will sort them out in due time after complain in their discusssion.
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11 Nov 11
That is good that you do that. I think a lot of people hear at my lot explain their circumstances so that others are able to understand their situation better. This way others are better able to give advice about their situation. Then a person can choose to apply these suggestions in their life to better it. I agree that being proactive is a good thing. Mylot is a great place to express our thoughts about literally anything have other people to talk with about it, and on top of it we earn. It so much better than a lot of other sites. I love it here.