Do you still remember your first love?

New Zealand
November 13, 2011 2:54am CST
I used to think that I am the people who can only love one person with my life. I fell in love with my first love when I was 15, through all these years, about 14years, I still can not get rid of him out of my mind, the memory when I first met him is still vivid in my mind. But he didn't love me, now he is married, I'm glad that he find his love, I do hope I can forget him and move on with my life, actually, it's hard. How should I do?
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5 responses
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
13 Nov 11
I guess it's usually hard to forget the first person you fell in love with. It's the first time you had that unexplainable feeling towards someone. A love different from that you felt for you parents or siblings. I still remember my first love even though the relationship ended in a sour note. My fault actually. But life goes on, and we have to move on with it.
• New Zealand
20 Nov 11
Yes, you are right, life goes on, we have to move on, he belongs to "past" and I need someone belongs to "present" and "future".
@waya616 (149)
• Philippines
13 Nov 11
You have to love yourself too. Its been too long you shouldn't grieve and waste your time on a guy that is now married. You said your'e glad that he has found his love, now is the time for you to find time for yourself. Live your life it will make you feel better. Do things that you have missed out because of him.
• New Zealand
20 Nov 11
hey, thanks, I try to meet as many people as I can, get out of my little world, open my mind to accept other people, sometimes it's hard, but I am trying. Believe I will meet someone who belongs to me.
• Southend-On-Sea, England
17 Nov 11
Yes, I still remember my first love from when I was aged 16 in 1970, 41 years ago. He did dump me for someone else and apparently is now, all these years later, on his second marriage and has a grown-up son and grandchild. I often think about him, although with hindsight, if we'd have married one another I don't think it would have worked out.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
14 Nov 11
I will always remember my first love. I also remember that my love because it was the first think that love can not be forgotten. I can not forget I want to naparyav but do not know how. it just remains a scar for life a memory that will always smoldering in us as everlasting fire. If there is a way to forget a lot of people will want it done within but certainly will not. nice day!
@JL_Beldua (102)
22 Nov 11
For me yes, i cannot forget my first crush until now, because i do hit him super handsome, when did i first crush my age was 13 years old i was until now i still crush him but not much, but you know really hard to forget the first crush.