Would you ever cheat on your spouse or lover?
By lijoos
@lijoos (346)
India
November 13, 2011 7:35am CST
.........i do and everyone do in small things........
i had promised to my lover i will stop smoking.and she trusted me but what can i do ? i continued without her knowledge.
we wont spoke about it a long time.she thinks that i quit smoking.
oneday i had realy out of control because i had drunken.
i have a problem if i drunken i will tell everything ,i cant hide anything.
This time
i feel sad for my lover and i apolagise that i dont quit .
it was too much for her.
she has no problem if i continued smoking.
but what i do i lied to her.
it was a big problem.
"she told me how can i trust you even if you lie about small things."
i told her " i can keep going with that lie " but what i do
i confessed so please....... and atlast i made her ok.
and there after i realy quit smoking but i dont tell anything about smoking and even she dont asked.
do you friends ever cheat?
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8 responses
@magtibaygom (4858)
• Philippines
13 Nov 11
I will never cheat on someone, including my partner. You know why? Cheating on someone is also cheating on yourself. Don't you know that? When you cheat on someone, the truth is, you are cheating yourself and you are making yourself. There's God who's always looking on us, watching everything that we do. We should always remember that.
@joni1215 (394)
• United States
13 Nov 11
I have a sis in law who lies and does things
to her boyfriend all the time. She claims to love
him and all but I wonder if he knew all the real
truth what would he do. Some people get away with
it because the other does not ask and they don't
really want to know because it would hurt too much.
Such may be the same with your wife. It's easier to
turn away than face the truth. People in general,
want to know the truth even if it hurts. One can
not predict the outcome of telling the but it is
still the best way to go. Lies always come out.
I guess that is where faith comes in. One has to
feel the relationship is strong enough to endure
these things. I do agree with her though. If someone
will lie about a small thing, then how could they
be trusted. Better still, how can you trust yourself?
She wants you to quit because she cares about your
health apparently. It's a slap in the face to lie
about it and throw her caring back at her.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
13 Nov 11
Oh...I am totally opposing to this discussion...Lover,Smoke and drink....
I hate such people that smoke.....I can't breath easy by standing near of these people...My father some times smokes by standing near of us....I will scold him and tell him ti go out of the home..After he can enter in to home....How you do that?????????Oh........Horrible...... !!!!!!!!!!!! Please try to avoid Lijoos....
@mmgonzales (882)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
I am a bad liar...even me and my partner wont see each other it is hard for me to lie even on smaller issues....i cant talk if i am caught if j lie...i will not cheat...i am happy to ask permission if it is pertaining to smoking or drinking to my partner...be with someone also i confess to my partner..he even know if somebody court me..lol...Ü
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
14 Nov 11
I would have to be forced into cheating on a lover. Otherwise, i don't hink that i could do it./ The guilt of betrayal would be too much for me to handle. Destroying a relationship I worked so hard to build would defeat life's purpose in so many ways. It wouldn't be for me.