Have difficult teens?

@SandeeE (346)
United States
November 14, 2011 11:57am CST
Ya know now that I have a one year old (well she's really 1 and a half) but I also have two teenagers. 15 and 13. I've discovered that both teens and the terrible twos (which usually start at one) are both the same. Both ages disobey because they want to test. Both say NO to everything. Both arugue about everything, they are emotional, easily irratated, they are stubborn and very very determined. Anyone else have problems w/these cycles of life?
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@cher913 (25893)
• Canada
14 Nov 11
YES! my daughter wasnt difficult when she was little (just very busy) but then when she hit age 11, she went crazy. she is now 18 and some better but there were times during those teen years i wanted to kill her!
@SandeeE (346)
• United States
15 Nov 11
Oh I know it. I told my son tonight as much as I hate saying anything like it, but he was talking back after getting upset when I yelled at him because I had to ask THREE times for him to do something, so of course the last time I yelled upset and that just ticked him off. So I said he's grounded from games tomorrow and said BUT I WOULD REALLY LIKE TO SMACK YOU UPSIDE YOUR HEAD but I can't do that lol..I felt bad but uggggggggggggg I'm only one person and a single Mama.
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
14 Nov 11
I have 3 teens and gosh, my world is like having world war 3 when they starts fighting (not physically) but arguing and ohh...i just want to locked up myself in a room and let them do the war But when they are having bonding time,they're soo sweet and you will never think that they fight like raging bulls once they are in bad moods
@SandeeE (346)
• United States
15 Nov 11
Oh my goodness three at the same time I CAN emagine is a mess haha. But yes when they are calm and loving it is trully a blessing and makes you proud. Sometimes I have to remind myself that they are teens and even though I still feel like they are my baby's they feel all grown up you know? So I need to keep that in mind most day's. I am not ready to let go for sure ; [
@beenice2 (2274)
• Canada
11 Jan 12
I know what you mean. I have 4 that are at the mom and dad know nothing and I don't hear you age. Yes mom has to change and dad well might be him to, well try to have some help in the house you might have it next year, but their way you know is always better. My last one is only 7 and boy you know who they can blame,the younger that did it, for them he is evil!!!! Well those years has to past and hopefully without to many white hears.