whats happen with many teacher when ask for divorce

@adhyz82 (36263)
Indonesia
November 15, 2011 12:45am CST
i read in kompas.com about the "strange news" for me..it`s weird.. Many of teachers who are working in several schools in the area of ??Kerinci Regency filed for divorce to her husband. This was allegedly because (maybe) the wife has a larger income than her husband. Head Regent of Kerinci H Murasman, when confirmed, acknowledges that. He said, throughout 2011, there are at least 20 divorce civil servants (PNS) within the scope of Kerinci Regency had filed for divorce. "Yes, there are many civil servants who filed for divorce, and most of them dominated by the teacher," he said. The cause of the teacher filed for divorce to her husband, he said, is mixed. Some are due to her husband married another woman, and there is also because of her husband's infidelity. "Another reason may be because his salary is much larger than the husband so that he felt sure he could raise his own children, without asking help from the husband," he said. i think it`s ridiculous..what do you think when you read this news??
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10 responses
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
2 Dec 11
Wow. This news is unfortunate. The wife has a larger income than her husband, as a reason for divorce. I do not know, have to comment on what, but this is something very silly.
@adhyz82 (36263)
• Indonesia
3 Dec 11
well..we don`t know the real purpose of them...why they are easily break their marriage...
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
5 Dec 11
Yes. We do not know their reasons. Divorce can not be prevented. If the marriage does not make peace, would be better to divorce. If maintained, would make it uncomfortable. As happened to me. Life uncomfortable, and finally my son who became victims.
@adhyz82 (36263)
• Indonesia
5 Dec 11
so like AlQuran, divorce is allowed by God, but actually God doesn`t like the divorce
• Indonesia
15 Nov 11
that was weird. it's nonsense if they divorce their husband because of money. i'm so sorry to them because money win against love to her family.
@adhyz82 (36263)
• Indonesia
15 Nov 11
so i start with my comments, it`s weird..
• Indonesia
15 Nov 11
yup. that's really weird.
@adhyz82 (36263)
• Indonesia
3 Dec 11
satroomice, where are you now??
@Yheart (497)
• Indonesia
24 Feb 12
I think it is fine to get divorced when we have strong reason. But for salary, I think we first need to tackle with it. If we can live with the salary why getting divorce? Except the salary cause too much dispute and fight.
@adhyz82 (36263)
• Indonesia
24 Feb 12
you did not understand the meaning of my discussion i make this discussion when i read the news in yahoo, the number of divorce in one regency in Jambi province is so bigger.. some of them , from woman.. because maybe they think that their salary can be enough for her and their kids..
• India
5 Dec 11
I think it is true to certain extend because my cousin is a good teacher and she applied to divorce. She did it because he is found of all the land and money which she belongs. He always tries to force my cousin to give all her belongings like money and other things. Actually he do not love her but he loved her belongings. So she applied for the divorce. The divorce is still pending in the court.
@adhyz82 (36263)
• Indonesia
5 Dec 11
i think your cousin is different with my discussion... this is the common happens in one part in Sumatera island... but maybe there one case in include my discussion is similar than your cousin happens.. it`s bad when the marriage is based on money...
• Mexico
22 Nov 11
Hi adhyz: I agree with you. This is just ridiculous but at the same time I think this reflects how weak some relationships are built these days. It's ok to think financial stability when you look for a person to get married but it's more than that. Marriage is an important decision to make and it's more about love and chosing the person you want to share your life with. ALVARO
@adhyz82 (36263)
• Indonesia
22 Nov 11
yes, the basic of that marriage like that is so weak..thats why somebody else who involve in that weaker basic marriage is easy when they say, they want to divorce..
• Indonesia
18 Nov 11
In my point of view, it's such a weird thing if occurs in Indonesia. Because of our culture that doesn't take this kind of thing as a trivial thing. Married is not just a bind of two people, married is a incorporation for two different custom, different ideas, different family, and the other thing.
@adhyz82 (36263)
• Indonesia
18 Nov 11
yes, marriage for indonesian culture is sacral and make 2 bigger family become one family because of the marriage.. so it`s weird if there are trend that now many woman feel that they are dependent without their husband..
@wulania (1528)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 11
i am tecaher at aprimary school grade two i have some problem, some parents are single because of diforce and i try to not to hurt my students heart. but at civics class or social class it is hard for because we wlyas discuss about a complete and happy family. we never talk about single parents there
@adhyz82 (36263)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 11
so , whats the effect for your student??
@sopigs (107)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
let me guess, maybe it happen because money. For some people, money is the most important things when they get married. how embarrasing ! when you get married, it is not so easy to divorce like the news said. I don't really what happen out there. But, i'm sure there something about money there.
@adhyz82 (36263)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
yes, this is about oney and maybe social status...if they had become Civil servant (PNS),their social status is bigger than her husband..and maybe it make they are really "arrogant" and think that they can live without their husband
@winterose (39918)
• Canada
16 Nov 11
I think these are valid reasons, who wants to be with someone who is unfaithful, about the money issue it causes many problems in marriages all over the world
@adhyz82 (36263)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
i dont know..why the problem is in this case is only money..
@ravisivan (14055)
• India
15 Nov 11
It is the salary difference that makes difference and also the way people are brought right from childhood. Giving up for others is what is required to make marriage success.
@adhyz82 (36263)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
i think yes, maybe the bigger difference about salary make woman said that they don`t need a man anymore :)