Will a man spend much money on someone that he doesn't love?

@hestylim (1210)
Indonesia
November 19, 2011 9:19am CST
Some of my friends said that men who are easy on earning money will spend money on girls without thinking. I think a guy must in love with a girl to spend money on her. If he only spends treating her dinner or bringing her to movies.. it can be said ordinary thing that guys do to girls that they love or they intend to involve in a relationship. If a guy pays your bills, rent you house.. He must be in love with you. Though he never tells you that he in love with you. At least that is what I think. What do you think??
3 responses
@fakeboss (26)
• China
10 Dec 11
pay the bills ,rent the house????? well, this guy must so love this girl........ and this guy would be either the girl's boyfriend or the girl's father......... well,there's the third possbility........... maybe he owes the girl money
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
23 Dec 11
Yeah, pay bills and rent house. I heard that kind of situation when I chatted with my friends, and I just wonder, whether mylotters have the same idea with me.. mmmmm, I have same opinion with you. I mean, if the boy doesn't love the girl, why should he spend the money? It's different if he earns the money easily, I think. But still, it is money that he spent.
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
2 Dec 11
Very possible that a man can spend money on someone he does not love. What I know is, some men are very good in pretending that they can do anything to please a girl for their own gain. Take for example, a guy who loves his wife so much but ends up cheating on her with some other girl, it does not really mean he loves the girl but he just wanna be with her.
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
23 Dec 11
Wow! I like your statement! :D "It does not mean he loves the girl, he just want to be with her" I never thought of that possibility. hehe..
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
20 Nov 11
Yes I do think men will spend big money on females even tho they do not love them..Love dosen't rent a house, love dosen't pay a bill...it takes MONEY...maybe the man just is getting something other than love in this relationship. It takes a person with that type of money to splurge on a female in that type of way. It dosen't mean love ..it could mean that its an extra cirricular ...outside the boundaries of conventional propriety...
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
21 Nov 11
hmm.. sounds complicated.. But, anyway, thanks for your comment! :)