Maybe that is my fate

United States
November 22, 2011 4:41am CST
This happen to me all the time. When I grew to like a girl, or I try to love a girl, she either has a boyfriend already and she didn't tell me about, or she felt in love with somebody else. Maybe the problem is in me, no matter how much I try to improve myself. Maybe that is fate, and I am lost confidence on myself to look for another relationship. My last girlfriend I had, she might grew tired on us, and she simply left.
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@inertia4 (27711)
• United States
30 Nov 11
Well, I feel like I am listening to myself years ago. I always felt inadequate around girls. I also had that happen to me and I always thought it was me. But, it wasn't. It was that I did not have enough confidence in myself. Also, I did not know how to handle rejection. But, the funny thing is that back then there was a girl that really liked me and I did not know it. For starters, she was my cousins girl friend and I never looked at her that way. I really liked her also, but never made a pass or said anything about it. And, I would never do anything to my cousin. So, life moved on. But 25 years later I bumped into this girl again, and to my surprise, she still liked me very much, so now we are together. Do not be hard on yourself. You do have to learn how to handle rejection. Then you will be alright. The other thing is that these girls might not realize that you are a good guy.
@tiina05 (2319)
• Philippines
22 Nov 11
hello, Sorry for that but you don't have to be pity to yourself because it is you and you don't have to change anything to you. It is either they like it or not. alright? If that happened to you. You don't have to blame yourself to it, it is just not work at all and just a coincident. Never lose hope in term of love and never look for love wait until it finds you because the more you look the more you will fail. Just wait the right time.