Tips Prevent Child Emotion As Rebuking

@ekoytyas (4679)
Indonesia
November 22, 2011 10:18am CST
There are several strategies to cope with anger in children: 1. When the child begins to annoy and upset, take a deep breath slowly. This action will prevent you from saying rude or yelled at the child. Repeat several times until feeling a little quiet, before you say or do anything. Once calm, the brain will think more clearly so you can control what will you talk about later. 2. When the anger starts to rise, it is difficult to control yourself. But remember, you're dealing with your own child. Try to think of positive qualities that exist in the person of the child. Imagine how cute he is when I started learning to crawl or plain when he laughs when you want to photograph them. Given the good things of the children, will help you defuse anger and act more controlled. 3. After successfully controlling yourself, get your child talking heart to heart. In this case, act like a friend. Position your body parallel to the height, eye contact and spoke in a low voice. Ask why he was doing something that makes you angry, what he wanted. Conversely, do not tell him to be this way or that way. 4. Learn more sensitive to the feelings of children. Know what they fear, desire, interest and what is not liked. By understanding the child, then you can address the problem according to the child's point of view. 5. If indeed such anger could not be detained longer, go for a while before starting a conversation with a child. Leave him to another room, clear your mind for a while. After more quiet, you can communicate with your child again. i hope this tips would be useful for all of you guys who have children.
2 responses
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
24 Dec 11
A very good strategy. As a mother, I sometimes difficult to control my anger, when my son is very naughty. Strategies that you gave, I will try, and it seems that the strategy will be successful. Do you have children? If you have, you are good parents. Your information is very useful for all parents.
@ekoytyas (4679)
• Indonesia
24 Dec 11
yes, sometimes child always make us dizzy with their act. but if you want to do anything, they just do what are children do, maybe we also act like that when still child. but if you have good strategy it can be good. no i still single, i just got this info from internet and want to share.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
24 Dec 11
Yes. You are right. A good strategy, can appease the anger. Sometimes I feel sorry, if I can not control my anger. Apparently you do not have children. But you, have learned, how to be parents. That's very good. You will be a good parent.
@ekoytyas (4679)
• Indonesia
24 Dec 11
i hope so.. i am really to be a good parent.
@humaira12 (149)
• Indonesia
23 Nov 11
thanks for ur info,, nice,, be a wise,, maybe i could record it, and i'll practice it when i have kids later,, thank u
@ekoytyas (4679)
• Indonesia
23 Nov 11
you are welcome, hope this info will be useful for all of us.