What was harder, to say you love someone or to say you dont love them?

@chiyosan (30184)
Philippines
November 24, 2011 1:26am CST
Have you ever had a chance to tell someone you do not love them? Say a person who would want to be your partner... So did you find it hard to tell them you do not love them? did you find the courage to say so? what can you say? which is harder, to say you love someone (under some circumstances) or to say you do not love them? THank you!! =)
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• Philippines
24 Nov 11
I think it depends to whom I will say those words. It's easy to reject someone when he doesn't mean a thing to you but if he does, then it's a different story. I have never had a chance to say "I love you" to a guy but I have rejected someone already. Well he didn't really say love. It was "like" not "love". But I still didn't accept it because I have a valid reason for that. I know I'm so mean! I'm not saying that I easily rejected him. It was hard on my part since I also value our friendship and I wasn't ready for him and me to level up. I'm glad we're still friends and he understands me. I never had a chance to confess to someone because I was too afraid of rejection. But probably if the guy will confess first and then the feeling is mutual, I could tell him that "I love you too." I'm very traditional so I wait for the guy to move. After all, true love waits. ^_^
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
14 Jan 13
hi there, that is true, we are always cautious and we often keep our feelings with us because we are afraid of what would be told of us, if we are to be rejected or not... it is hard if we do not know where we stand in someone's life... but most does find it hard to reject as well hoping not to hurt someone when they say they do not love them... thank you for your response! really appreciate it and have a wonderful day at mylot!
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
24 Nov 11
for me it is not hard to tell someone that I love him. for me it is difficult to say that I do not like someone. any case when you just need to understand that people do not ezhelaya to yourself then wash more difficult because I think that I could offend someone. while I like to say and show your love. nice day!
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
14 Jan 13
thank you for your response! really appreciate it and have a wonderful day at mylot! For me, i can say that i have always found it hard to say that i do not love someone or that i do not care -- i just show it, i don't say them.