I am so down.... :(

Philippines
November 24, 2011 5:15am CST
i know maybe others would think that my problem is not big..but what i am encountering right now is making me sad and affecting me..next year maybe the love of my life for three years and me is going to have a long distance relationship..its ok right but the real problem is i DON'T TRUST HIM..although he is always honest and i never heard him lie. i always find out from others that he is always telling the truth he is very religious and very respectful with his parents i also notice that he is also honest to them.. i guess my past has something to do with this..before my ex boyfriend was really great..and i felt really really loved..we've been together for a long time but suddenly he broke up with me because he was a dedicated honor student and he needs to concentrate.it was a shocked since i never really saw it coming...so now i always have the fear of impending break up even if its not yet happening even if i am happy with him the fear is always there. i have a tremendous TRUST ISSUE and i dont know how to deal with it.
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bashabasha
@bashabasha (400)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
When someone break our heart from the past and enter for a new relationship. Its really hard to trust again to someone ,we lost our trust because we got hurt before. But, If you love with a selfless heart without expectations, you will surely be a happy individual. I know its hard but try to love like that.
Always smiling
@allknowing (130076)
• India
24 Nov 11
So many things can happen to topple your relationship which would have no connection with you or with your boyfriend. Once you know this and accept it you will feel better as this is common to all of us and yet we get on with life. Living in fear does not augur well for you and you must make every effort to get out of this situation which you can if you make a determined effort. I wish you well.
Nezavisima Deskata
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
24 Nov 11
trust is a very big problem. and what you wrote is really sad. because the love of many unexplained things hurt the most. iponyakoga wrong man knows what is true and what is not. When you lose trust is very difficult to get it back again. is terrible and very very hurt to know why you feel sad and hurt. I wish you continue to be very happy. nice day!