Perfection

Canada
November 24, 2011 12:33pm CST
I've been surfing Mylot today because I'm bored. It's that simple. Does it ever come across to you that someone is claiming to be perfect? Blaming others for their issues? Problems in their lives? Proclaiming to be the perfect mother, wife, friend or aunt. I wonder if we all came on here and pretended to be perfect would that make life easier? I'm starting to see that there is alot of pretending, from (some) people because their lives are a mess and this make them feel good about themselves. Getting that ego boost from a stranger because they don't know how truly demented the person is that they are responding to. I try to keep my opinions short because I am only having one story to go on and that's unfair. I am not perfect. Nor do I claim to be. I am human therefor I am highly likely to make a mistake, an error in life and have the opportunity to say I'm sorry and hope that that is enough. If I have to beg and plead with another human to accept my faults then I need to have the strength and courage to move forward. I feel that when we come off with the attitude that life and people around us suck then we need to reflect. When you are the common denominator in issues in your relationships then the problem can't always be someone else's fault. Before you write on a public forum...think.....the one you maybe defamin and hurting could be reading your comments and that can lead to someone being hurt. Do you want to be that person who joins in and bashes a person you do not personally know? I know I don't.
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3 responses
• Indonesia
25 Nov 11
this is grear discussion
• Canada
5 Feb 12
Thanks for the tip!
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
25 Nov 11
For me it is not good in this site if you are to be in that case because all here is not perfect so it is hard to deal with that case.
@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
24 Nov 11
That's a really good point, I know I"m not perfect, and when I say something I apologise as quickly as I realise I made a mistake. It's one of the best ways to open communication to work things out.