People began to be lonely

November 29, 2011 4:41am CST
I think people who use internet began to be lonely.We use some communication web sites and we expect we have a lot of friend.We can connect with them and we can share a lot of thing but all of these activities are virtual.I believe we can get good societies and we can transfer these societies in social life.What should we do for transfering good societies which is on internet?
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@vinzer (24)
• Singapore
29 Nov 11
I'm not so sure that the internet is the ideal society you speak of. Just looking at some forums, you'd see that the anonymity that the internet offers even makes some users a bit more brash, arrogant, and rude. Just my two cents.
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@deeeky (3667)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
29 Nov 11
Anonamous - I do not think so as everything we do on the world wibe web is traceable so just be carefull what you put out there as once you press that button it is forever recorded. Have a great day from Deeeky
@belaaa (181)
30 Nov 11
I don't think that problem is on internet! I stopped to converse with many of my friends, because they are so obsessed from there personal life, don't live eco, don't read, even have not hobbies. Talk only for work or where gone on party, we not in school anymore, I'm tired from they empty life. They not interest me anymore, perhaps I'm not interest for them also. ;)
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@luanakent (794)
• Brazil
30 Nov 11
internet has good things and bad things. All that is unusual is not good then we must not exaggerate.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
I am not sure whether to agree with you here. But I don't see or feel that the Internet makes me or other people lonely. In fact, people especially those who are away from their family from working abroad, enjoyed their time browsing the net. We get a lot of knowledge here, we get to see the news, we gain friends (virtual friends - that may or may not be our real friends) and we can connect with our long lost friends and relatives too. It is just up to our own way how to balance our real life from our virtual life.
@grace147 (223)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
In my opinion, when we begun using internet it will not lead us to loneliness if we use it on the right direction. It is indeed a powerful tool that we can get in touch a zillion miles away to persons we don't know and build a friendship. Exchanging ideas and knowing each others cultures and traits are pretty amazing. If we are on the right track, we can connect with them and challenges on how to build a distant relationship is not boring after all. All its takes not to be lonely is to be real person.
@chrisding (141)
• China
30 Nov 11
When i am boring,i will use internet to spend my time.We can attend the party which the network man organized,some party like car groups,bbs groups.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
loneliness is a part of life. for me, i don't have to dispel it, instead to embrace it. in that way, i am able to cushion myself of the negativities brought about by loneliness. in fact, i would like to befriend it, and look at it in a positive way. i like the online community, but i dare not take it so seriously. virtually, it serves some purpose of entertainment and diversion from loneliness.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
loneliness is a part of life. for me, i don't have to dispel it, instead to embrace it. in that way, i am able to cushion myself of the negativities brought about by loneliness. in fact, i would like to befriend it, and look at it in a positive way. i like the online community, but i dare not take it so seriously. virtually, it serves some purpose of entertainment and diversion from loneliness.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
29 Nov 11
Well I do Agree with you dear.That Internet is taking us away from the people who are close to us,But we do learn many things here. The best thing to bring your known ones here is to start you own page and invite them here.
@ceasar09 (442)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
I think the right term is not lonely rather unsociable or just want to stay at home and spend the time in front of these social sites. Nowadays lots of us has been trapped in the virtual in the essence that someone doesn't want to go out and spend time on the community. But rather they decide to stay at home and socialize with other through the use of social networking sites. We should know how to balance socializing online and in to the community cause they will both benefit in the improvement of our social health. It is good that these sites are created but seeing person in personal is lot better than the experience we get in these Social Networking Sites.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
29 Nov 11
yes this is very true. I think people increasingly use the Internet because they feel lonely. and make their registrations in social networks can communicate with others. I think this discussion is very interesting. nice day!
@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
29 Nov 11
As with everything we can make a list of all the positive things and another column of all the negative things about the same thing. Though it is true that there is a lot of bad thing about the internet there is also so many good things. I like to consider the good things about the virtual world as well as the pitfalls to watch out for. Loneliness itself is not an exception.
@mayur2j (98)
• India
29 Nov 11
Yea sometimes I also feel, I am being lonely when I don't go anywhere outside my room for days and just sit on the internet. What do you mean by transferring societies to social life? To have good society there is only one way leave the computer leave the internet and go out with your friends.