How long is to long to wait????

United States
December 1, 2011 6:06pm CST
some of us wanna get married soon but its the partner who sometimes wanna wait but how long is to long ???? im not a big fan of marriage but its my friend who has been the dummy to keep waiting if you love someone an they love you i mean why wait...
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6 responses
• United States
4 Dec 11
I don't believe there is such a thing as waiting "too long". I don't understand people who are obsessed with getting married. I don't believe in rushing into marriage to feel secure of validating. When it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, it doesn't. You don't HAVE to get married.
@boyuancy (1709)
• India
3 Dec 11
Long, as long as you don't piss off your partner. Some people are ambitious and want to give more time to their careers. But if it goes too far and the partner is keeping you waiting for, like 10 years than it is unacceptable. You shouldn''t waste your life and just move on.
@markphil (285)
• Philippines
2 Dec 11
As long as your heart and love could wait, why not wait and be strong all the time. As long as you have the desire to love and be with the one you love forever, always for him or her.
@nezavisima (7416)
• Bulgaria
2 Dec 11
When we love someone we are able to wait as much as they should. because true love does not ask when it comes and then we are ready for her every decision. when love is true she always wait and never lose what you feel. I agree to always wait even a lifetime because you will know that this is my love. nice day!
2 Dec 11
I am married. I don't have a long engagement but I still like it. Also, I believe that you should not measure love with the longest time you waited. I mean, if love is really there, you feel loved and in love, then, it's worth the wait. We should not rush into marriage. Several things are meant to be considered if we want to get married. Remember, life or the relationship doesn't reach its end after marriage. You have to live and eventually die with it.
• United States
2 Dec 11
I am the one not ready to be married. I want it very much but,I am so use to taking care of myself that it is hard to even imagine my life relying on another. I love my man and we will be married but not until I am ready.