what can I do for her

China
December 4, 2011 3:01am CST
I'm afraid my girlfriend is spread too thin since she often goes to university before 7am every morning,taking five courses . workes 16 houre a week in the flowerstore,and is on the womem tennisball team.She looks tired all the time and keep falling asleep in her classes.I love her ,but I have no idea to reduce her stress.what can I do for her?
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@Greninee (369)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
hello! I admire your love and concern for your girlfriend. I think you should advice her to eat lots of fruits and vegetables as these foods contains high in nutrients that can fight stress. You can help her in making her assignments so she won't reach late at night making these assignments. Always bring her food is good and very sweet for you to do. I recommend she must take vitamins rich in Iron like ferrous sulfate. I really appreciate you. for any questions, you can ask me. happy day!
@MANJET (84)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 11
Hi there, seems like your girlfriend has very tight schedule every day. why not ask her to quit some of the unnecessary things. going to the university is fine but maybe she can stop working at the flower store? besides that, you can lend your ear by listening to her, accompany her. That will help her mentally.
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• Indonesia
4 Dec 11
You should talk to your daughter and ask her if she really necessary need to work 16 hours a week and took five courses. I thought it was too much for her to do them once in while. I think it's better to look up her schedule and make a new schedule that doesn't waste her energy. I know it's important for her to have good education and get money in the same time, but how in the end she would get stress and could not do them anymore. You should tell her to have a break from her course and work for several days to relieve her stress.
@sjvg1976 (41132)
• Delhi, India
4 Dec 11
Hello li123456li, Oh that means your girl friend is so hard working as she does so many things together.You need to talk to her may she is in need of money thats why its her necessacity to do all this.If you are concerned for her than you must ask her if she needs money and you should help her with some money so that she could reduce some of her work.
• China
5 Dec 11
Your suggestion is very practical,my idea is as same as yours.and I have talked so to her.but she is a very independent person,she want to set up her own world rely on herself rather than on me.from this point of view,I quite admire her,so I don't give money to her.so you can imagine,it's hard to do anything with this situation.
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@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
As a boyfriend, she should also have time for you and for herself too. I can see that she has too many priorities aside from studying. That is too over. Tell her too sacrifice one of it. Not the studies because it is a very important thing. I hope you will guide her well. Be there for her always.
• Philippines
5 Dec 11
Hello li123456li, for me being a woman, helping your girlfriend to reduce or release her stress,give her some funny joke,take care of her, and do not spar her, every time that you with her emphasize your sweetness and loving boyfriend.
@zaga_cleuth (1407)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
Somewhat the same drama with me. I keep myself stress with so many things. You know, a girl who keeps herself busy with something means, she needs someone to take good care of her. Well, that is base on my perspective. cuz Im a bit like that. The best thing you could ever do is to, show her your support, love what she's doing, give her fruits and not nag her by asking her to stop. Never ever tell a girl to stop on what she's doing cuz that makes her happy. Support is the best. Then, pamper her in awhile. Give her massage. Or treat her with ice creams. That can reduce stress but again , never ever confront her to stop. That is a no no. . A girl knows when to stop. She must be sort of like me, who likes to stay on so called "uncomfort zone" . other people want to be on safe zone. Just do the rituals and the usuals. But a girl like her, is so outgoing. Just give her vitamins, fruits, etc. that is best.. .and she will find you sweet by doing that too. another handsome point for you.:))
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
4 Dec 11
I think that the all things are needed to her..Nothing can be avoided...If she will get any thing as money from her parents or friends will help her to rest on that time of work...She can avoid the work in flower shop...That'll be a great relief to her...If she do so, She will be really energetic in classes..If you can help her, You can help in the form of money and allow her to take rest for 16 hours in a week...You should help her in case of money..Because she is your girl...So please don't lonely allow her to do hard work....Thanks...
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
oh no, she should go easy on herself. not stress herself too much, otherwise she would grow gray hairs before she knows it. you can take her to a spa, your treat, or a dinner, do anything relaxing together. or sleep with her, make her comfortable wherever she is. or respect her privacy and let her rest often.