Happy family
By Jotomy
@Jotomy (6322)
India
December 6, 2011 3:48am CST
We all know that Husbands need to love their wives as their own bodies and wives should love their family and respect their husbands.
But i see all the time in the news channels husband killed his wife, husband harassment etc., and wives who earn more money than their husbands should not have the superiority complex. Which makes lot of problems between them. Should think wife and husband are one, one body and one soul.
The wife and husband relationship everyone should understand it is the god's judgement. So respect it, spread love towards the family and lead a happy life. Couple should understand the value of their partners.
I feel we must teach children first the value of the woman in their life as a moral science. The godly activities to the children from the very 1st class.
Friends what do you say in this regard. Share with me.
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4 responses
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
6 Dec 11
Hi akka 
Well first, today's marriages are not God's Judgement anymore. And whenever we mess around with God's will, we know how dangerous that gets. Same with marriages. Today, they have become more of economic pacts and money you know is the reason for all the problems 
No books can teach morales unless the facts at home are different. Imagine kids seeing this husband-wife violence on Home, TV and almost everywhere - how will any book get rid of these images they see everyday
Well first, today's marriages are not God's Judgement anymore. And whenever we mess around with God's will, we know how dangerous that gets. Same with marriages. Today, they have become more of economic pacts and money you know is the reason for all the problems
No books can teach morales unless the facts at home are different. Imagine kids seeing this husband-wife violence on Home, TV and almost everywhere - how will any book get rid of these images they see everyday
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
6 Dec 11
sids,
This women issue is a big deal esp in your place.
I hope this new era will embrace and accept the reality that women can match men in everything.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
6 Dec 11
dear Jo,
Here in our country,equality between men and women is not an issue.
There might be some issues that when it involves a woman- the society resist to accept such as elicit affair -while involving men is acceptable (what a crap)
But when it comes to job or job position/salary/income- that's never been a big deal who is earning better and who is handling a higher position.
Emotionally battered wife can sue their husbands same crime as physical battering.
Well, being physically or emotionally battered here is a matter of choice -if a woman stays in such a relationship (there might be good reason for being martyr) otherwise- most women here knows their rights and how to fight legally with such abuses.
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@jaisundar (215)
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6 Dec 11
Love is getting depleted day by day as the ozone layer, which in turn causes havoc in a family. Money is dominating the world. Want's are increasing. No adjustments and compromises between couples. Anger dominates due to this, which in turn leads to kill the partners. The only thing we mylotters can suggest is watch astha channel the brahmakumari's teachings.
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@Jotomy (6322)
• India
14 Dec 11
Hi jaisundar, is it the reason? How come this ozone layer works on couple dear, love related to the heart this is my belief. If you have real love towards the family / partner then i feel nothing will cause for the breakups. Yeah do watch sometimes this program. Nice program to watch it, but in reality it is very hard to follow. Its all depends on the situations how human being will change minute to minute.
thanks for your response. Have a good day/night.
@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
6 Dec 11
Hello Jotomy,
Yes husband and wife should respect each other's feelings to have a good atmosphere in house 
but normally it does not happen often we read husband killing wife or vice versa due to ego issues .In order to have a good relationship we must care for each other and try to compromise with the things and should not think of ourself only.
but normally it does not happen often we read husband killing wife or vice versa due to ego issues .In order to have a good relationship we must care for each other and try to compromise with the things and should not think of ourself only.
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