working is too horrible

@lupeng (82)
China
December 7, 2011 11:51pm CST
many people say that working experience make you acquire more value.i'm preparing for the English test recently,however,i have to working everyday,i did't have much time focus on my English in depth.sometimes,i had mistakes on my work,i did't have good mood on everythings.for a reason,working is too horrible. certainly,there also have many problem bewteen the colleagues.this relationship is complex and tension.i did't know why sometimes they are very friendly and kind for me,but sometimes they are so terrible on somethings.when we meet some questions ,such as the responsibility ,they must be push this issue to me.i'm very nervious and scared. i'm so foolish and innocent,i did't want to push the responsibilty to anyone,i think this kind of the behavor isn't well.but why they can treat to me such calm?i can't understand.i did't want to understand at all.human being were so terrible,working is too horrible.
7 responses
@chrisding (141)
• China
9 Dec 11
Have a nice day.I think working in company and I should kindly to someone.Somethimes I dont want to work in this company,but you know if you change anther,the same problem around you.So I think do I what I should do is necessary.
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
College life is hard. Aside from the pressure you get from your professors, your colleagues also adds. I hate people who are very irresponsible and also depend on others. We are already college student, they should be mature enough. Don't mind them anyway. Just focus on how you will be able to manage you time for your English test preparation, your job and study. Life is difficult. But I believe you will make it.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
i sympathize with you on your work environment. i imagine the struggles you face with your colleagues. i am sure that everyday you will learn something out of this situation. and those learnings will make you better and stronger. keep the motivation each day to continue while you are still growing as a person. i wish you the best in life.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
hello lupeng, with regard to your main topic discussion, for me, working will only be horrible if i did not found any enjoyment and benefit out from it. and whenever i still feel the pain inspite of the high salary that i am receiving. that is the time that i can really says that working is too horrible. i am in a not so nice circumstances but im not declaring any situation in my life that is "too horrible". thus, i am still looking positively. thinking some positive views that i am getting out from my daily bible readings. perhaps, in your condition, try to seek advice from your closest friends, a bestfriend maybe. then seek God's word by reading phrases from a good book. taking and digesting some passage that can help you lift up yourself from the negative energy that you feel. remember, there is always a sunshine after the rain. try to look at the bright side, as God is always there willing to lift us up.
@haopee (493)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
I've repeated this to my beau. Unfortunately, the only way to handle your colleagues is to be brave enough to say no. Some people are push-overs. Others are weak enough to be pushed over. Friends are friends but when it comes to work, others turn to each other just to get ahead. I'm sure you've heard of crab mentality. Well, it gets more complex than just blaming someone or placing unnecessary responsibility on them. Working only becomes terrible if you don't like the job or you hate the people you're working with. Either way, if you can't adjust to it, you could consider finding another job, which I know is pretty hard these days. Still, a little patience and determination goes a long way. Just be brave and stand firmly on your decisions.
8 Dec 11
you should change yourself? do u think that?
• China
8 Dec 11
There is no doult that working is horrible especislly to college students like us.But we can not always stay in school day and day night and night.We have to walk into the society one day.Then we must face the horrible things just like what you are facing.We can not escape from life.I can feel how you are feeling.I also believe you can make it.Come on!