Less pain and Less heartaches for the coming 2012

Philippines
December 7, 2011 11:57pm CST
Good day dear fellow mylotters, Since it is only few days left for 2011, I somehow think, that I should change my way of living. If before I am that serious in facing my life situation, now, I will reverse it. I will treat my life lightly. As I will not treat it so serious. That I wiil do my best not to take my life very sensitive. To take every situation in a light manner. So in this instance, I will not be hurt that much especially if the people who are close to my heart will bring pain in me. Another thing, perhaps, I will somehow put a limitation on the level of my sincerity especially to my family. So I will not be in pain if they hurted me just like what they are doing and to what they did. I think its time. Time for me to change some ways. Doing the reverse side of it. In this way, it will be less pain and less heartaches for the coming 2012.
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10 responses
• China
9 Dec 11
Same as my thought.Sometimes I think this problem. But always the reality beat me! It's time for me to change my thoughts. This month is the last month of 2011. Next month will be 2012. Hope my ability can improve in the future!
@kingparker (9698)
• United States
9 Dec 11
Maybe you are right, somehow I got this logic too. If you take less serious and sincerity with the people surrounding you, you probably won't hurt that much, and you probably will be happier with days and nights of your life. That is something we gone through a painful experience from day to day, and something we realized from our daily lives.
@cearn25 (3460)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
Is that your new year's resolution? I guess part of it. I hope you will be able to attain what you want to achieve in the coming year of 2012. Just be yourself. Remember also what you have promised to yourself that you will be always good. How you treat other people, you will see the reverse of it. If you treat them in light manner, it will come back to you.
8 Dec 11
I really hope so for a good less or zero no pain for 2012..it's just that...i saw this movie 2012...:( i'm a bit concern for this.. :(
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
Good day airasheila. Relax and take it easy. Have faith in God and in yourself. It does not matter what others think, that's their option. But you have control over your own actions. As long as you make the right choices, you're on your way to freedom from heartaches and pain. A happy and blessed 2012 to you, my friend.
@megamatt (14332)
• United States
8 Dec 11
I hope for a great year for all coming in 2012. As we look around the world, there was a lot of insanity and disasters all throughout 2011, that caused a lot of great heartache. And that is really not going to really lead to a lot of personal heartache that I am sure that many of us are going to suffer from a day to day basis. For me personally, 2011 had its ups and its downs, but really there had been higher years and lower years for me personally. There are just going to be many times where hopefully the next year is an improvement over the year that really left us. Only time will tell. Let us really cross our fingers and be prepared to walk into 2012, for better and for worse.
@fantabulus (4005)
• India
8 Dec 11
You are right now in 2012 less pain and less headachs because God calling now directly with in a minute. Lots of big accidents occured like two buses crashed to each other. Full train fired, bus fall in river etc. So people are dying with in a minute. No chance of pain in 2012.
• India
8 Dec 11
It is the time for me to change my thoughts and goals for this new year. I have many plans,goals and many things for this new year. I don't know whether it will come true in my lief but i will do my best to make them alive in my life. So please pray for me to make my goals and aims to become true in my life.
@nezavisima (7418)
• Bulgaria
8 Dec 11
Oh this is very nice I hope happens. This might be a good year in which we are all happy happy and cheerful. I hope this is the year. Let's hope there is hope. hope it keeps us. nice day!
@haopee (494)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
One of the lessons I've learned from my sister is to never get too affected by what others say to you. You know who you are and what you want to be, they can give you advice and insight but will have no right to dictate your life. I hope you can change for the better. If your emotions are crushing you sometimes, you should take them lightly. Or at least, consider distracting yourself as this has worked wonders to me a number of times. Sensitivity is like pride, in the wrong setting, it can ruin you or drive you crazy.