My brother did it again :-(

@tamirs (1808)
Philippines
December 8, 2011 8:51am CST
So i was tapping my fingers her on my keyboard when i hear a commotion outside. My brother came,and go straight to our Grandma's room.It could have been a very good gesture,if he only wants to say goodnight.The problem is,he wakes her up to say goodnight and have a not so little talk with her while he is so drunk. :-( My father came and invite him out of Granny's room so the old lady can go back to sleep.But he refuses.He got mad with my father and drive himself away from here. How could he do that?We don't know what to do with him,really. We are so happy about our granny celebrating here with us and then all of the sudden, he will those things.I won't be so surprise if Granny will ask me to drive her home tomorrow. :-(
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6 responses
@MaryLynn321 (2680)
• United States
8 Dec 11
Sorry to hear that. Does your brother live in the house? If he doesn't live there why wasn't the door to your house locked so people can't just walk in. Is your brother always drunk. Sorry to hear you are going through this with your brother while your grandmother is there. Have a nice day.
@tamirs (1808)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
No he don't live here.We have a shop that has a connecting door to the main house.It so happens that the shop is still open. He is always drunk Mary ,yesterday he welcomes granny while he is drunk. :-(
• United States
8 Dec 11
Sorry to hear that your brother has a drinking problem. That is too bad. Have a nice day.
• India
10 Dec 11
It is too bad. I think you can make him to a good way. Try tour best him to get out of the wrong way.
@emilytd18 (115)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
how old is your brother tamirs??? I think if he's old enough, he should learn to act on his age and at least be considerate of the people around him. I hope that you'll be able to help him eventually and that he'll realize the effects of the things that he does not only to his self but more importantly to your family. Really wish he would stop acting like a child and be more mature and responsible. Don't give up on him,but continue helping him in overcoming this bad habit, but don't tolerate him as well. It is always good to keep balance on things especially if the subject of your concern is an adult who refuses to act like one and continuously acting like a kid. Hope you'll have a good day and best of luck to your brother.. ^_^
@tamirs (1808)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
He is older than me em,he is 33 years old,with two kids and his wife is pregnant now. :-( . Actually,i dont know what to do with him anymore. I just dont talk to him often.
@airkulet (2705)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
I wished that your brother will realize all he's wrong doing.
@tamirs (1808)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
Our ultimate wish too.
@yanzalong (10150)
• Indonesia
17 Dec 11
Actually he loves his grandma. It seems to me that he has something to say which he has hidden it in his heart. He has probably got no chance to get it off his chest. My suggestion is that you, as his sister, try to talk to him, and gently ask him why he always goes to your grandma's room while she is sleeping. If he still doesn't want to talk it over, find other ways. What important here is that make sure you do not hurt his feeling. That's all.
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
That's too sad to hear. I hope your grandma will not change her mind. I hope your brother will change in his manner when he got drunk. Poor grandma I hope she can back to sleep again naturally.
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
That's so sad my dear. I am sure grandma's a little bit shock with your brother's behavior. I hope grandma will stay with you and your brother will realize his mistake :(