How to overcome the loss of MOTIVATION?

Indonesia
December 11, 2011 8:41am CST
I'm a university student since three months ago. But until now I can't follow the stream of campus activity. I don't really enjoy it at all. And unfortunately I still do my bad High School habits, being lazy everytime, skipping lectures, and so on. I just want to be able to think up, but I still can't do it. Have you ever feel same thing with me? Is there anyone want to give me suggestion to solve this? If so, It's so kind of you.. Thanks before..
6 responses
• Indonesia
12 Dec 11
Do not waste your future by simply lazing now...I'm sure you will regret later. I had experienced in college, and loss motivation due bad habits of insomnia and like party...and now I'm very regret, what I've done. Your future in your hand, maybe your parent still able to...but later on if you are an adult, you will feel so hard to make money without educational certificates.
@wadabski (761)
• Philippines
12 Dec 11
Being goal oriented is one of the most important thing. If you are in a career try to make the best out of it, like doing a master's course that will enable you to have a better job opportunity and self-actualization. I my self have plans on enrolling in a master's degree course for my profession that will enable me to have get the best of my chosen field.
@srjac0902 (1170)
• Italy
11 Dec 11
First of all you must sit for a while under the open air or under a tree and set up your goal. You must meditate about the values of your life and write them down. If you really want to study then daily you have to practive some meditation and visualize your goal and utter positive affirmations. Sometimes it is better you take some coffee to keep yourself active. You must write down your goal in very big letters and keep in your bedroom and look at it daily. Make friendship with clever and genuine boys. With friends you may modify your ways though you cannot change your nature. First you must seriously decide what you want in your life.
@airamtheb (370)
11 Dec 11
Set some goals first and identify your priorities in life.Think of your parents who send you to school, unless you are a self supporting student.If you are, then find an inspiration.From there, motivate yourself towards your studies and your goals in life.
@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
11 Dec 11
hi there rianhid, I guess you can change your mind about lectures. Think of it as something fun and enjoying, lectures can be so fun if you think it is. Make some friends who always attend lectures, study etc. These friends will be able to motivate and encourage you. Of course, you can also try to get to know the lecturer better, if you like a lecturer, you will feel better to attend his or her lectures.
12 Dec 11
In my opinion,everyday is fine,we must be treasure every minite.If we want better life by ourselves,we should study hard.then,i believe you can beyond your own.Besides,i think,if you are annoying,you can listen to the music which can calme down yourself.My best wishes for you .Good luck