is not love if it hurts.

Bulgaria
December 12, 2011 2:28pm CST
do you think is it true this is not love if it hurts. I always thought that the love can not hurt but lately I see an awful lot of us love hurts itya makes us suffer. Is it natural that they say that is not love if it hurts us.
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@Hazelme (649)
• United States
12 Dec 11
Love hurts. Who ever said love doesn't hurts has never loved. The bible supports it in corinthians.
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@ravisivan (14051)
• India
13 Dec 11
Because of our love for others we hurt others. We force them to do things in a way we want. that it why we say love hurts.When our close ones are ill we get mentally hurt.
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• Bulgaria
13 Dec 11
I very much correct harasaha these two posts. this is very simple but very true precisely because of the love just hurts if you are not loved and not loved was not going to hurt. Love is very sweet but sometimes bitter. thank you very much for answers. nice day!
@mohkanari (1957)
• India
13 Dec 11
I think everyone has more or less selfish passions attached with love. Any damage, loss occurred to our loved one or sharing of love by our loved one equally or more with others, all bring severe pain to anyone. But anything in the above said incidents occur to most of the love connections. I feel love has an invisible link with hurts of heart.
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• Bulgaria
13 Dec 11
very true friend. hurt by love but by love and sometimes awful lot of suffering. Wes is still everything depends on us. maybe we all just have to think about why you received it and to find fault in themselves. thank you very much for this response. nice day!
@kicysmile (213)
• China
13 Dec 11
hi friend,I think love sometime is hurt ,in some cases can make us happiness.hope you can face love bravely.
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• Bulgaria
13 Dec 11
not always have to think about the new love. and should never give up on love because although it hurt us before, it was number one in our lives. thank you very much for your reply. nice day!
@emilytd18 (115)
• Philippines
13 Dec 11
Hi nezavisima! In my opinion, I think it depends on the people who are in a relationship. You know, there's no perfect things in this world. And I do believe that when you do get hurt because of your love for a certain person, then that only means that you'll be happier in the next turn of tables. I am in love with someone, and despite being happy and all, still, we can't avoid to hurt each other(though not in any physical way of course) because there are things that are not common with the two of us and we both have to talk about it, try to look for a solution then adjust to the situation and everything will be alright after that. It's just a matter of trying to work things out if you really want it to work. So, don't be afraid to get hurt because of love. It's the greatest thing that could happen to anyone.
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• Bulgaria
13 Dec 11
Hello! what you wrote is very nice. to when a person is a relationship fc is much better not to hurt each other with another person. shtee just better when they understand so well. But to think that it all so my congratulations to you. thank you very much for your reply. nice day!
@bb_gabs (205)
• Philippines
13 Dec 11
I think if you love, you don' care if it hurts or not, because when you see the person you love happy, you will feel the same way too even if it hurts you. And giving love and not expecting anything in return is called unconditional love, and that kind of love is pure and priceless.
• Bulgaria
13 Dec 11
very true unconditional love is really nice. because it only gives but never receives nothing. just very wrong indeed love is true we will tolerate any pain and all the difficulties along the way. Many thanks for your reply. nice day!
@ravisivan (14051)
• India
13 Dec 11
It is a dangerous thing. Yes. When people are young --teen age or in twenties -- their ...for a person of other gender--has no reasoning and nobody can correct or rectify that also. As one grows older love for spouse, children again creates problems -- we impose our views on them--we become sick when they are sick. I recommend detached love to things, people, places, experiences. hope I am clear.
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• Bulgaria
13 Dec 11
to understand you completely and accurately. really love is very difficult. love each other every pain is different. just love to be real and strong to withstand the difficulties. thank you very much for your reply. nice day!
@donsky14 (5964)
• Philippines
12 Dec 11
I'll have to quote one of Avril Lavigne's song here. "Love hurts, whether its right or wrong". Love is not always happy and giddy...it does have its other side as well. And when your in love, you tend to make sacrifices which can lead to hurting. Also, your involve with another person...and trust me, not all the time you guys would understand each other. So comes the fights and argument. So..its just normal that you get hurt.
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• Bulgaria
13 Dec 11
Love is always stunning and passionate from the outset. course is that it refers to this love that is true. This is because love is just love it always hurts if one simply love such as that from the outset this is a true love. just need a little e asme protected against this pain. nice day! many thanks for your reply.
@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
12 Dec 11
I guess love sometimes hurts..but it shouldn't be as often, that hurt can make you stronger. by the time you got hurt by someone you will realize that some things should be change to be able to avoid hurting again. if you feel you've been hurt a lot think first the reason why, if it cannot change then maybe that love wasn't really for you.. so balance everything..
• Bulgaria
13 Dec 11
can sometimes love hurts but sometimes not. just as you say you must have balance. If love is true it will withstand anything because it is true. just you're very wrong there must be balance. many thanks for your reply. nice day!
@lilaclady (28270)
• Australia
12 Dec 11
I think love always hurts, because when you love someone, really love someone it puts you in a state of total want and then all of a sudden you think everyone else in the world wants the person you love, that is just what happens, love puts in a vonerable state.
• Bulgaria
13 Dec 11
yes this is true. one always feels when love is always suffering and pain. of true love always hurts us and makes us feel weird. because if it is not really true love really does not hurt and only true love, the heart suffers. nice day. many thanks for your reply