why they say this...

@fevena (11)
December 16, 2011 8:49am CST
"a break up is like a broken mirror. It is better to leave it broken than hurt yourself trying to fix it" my question is why some people go back to their ex either bad or good breakups? any explanation...
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@heartbit (237)
• Philippines
16 Dec 11
because for some others, love is sweeter the second time around. it is only after a break up that you get to see things differently. you get to learn from your mistakes and learn from it. so for two people who realizes this, they can make reconciliation work much better.
@fevena (11)
16 Dec 11
i like ur response.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
I think those words are depend on the situation of every people on how they end up their relationship or how they been hurt by their lover. I also think that there are lot of people that choose to go back with their ex lover after a break up because they really love that person and they don't want to lose them I think that kind of thing is just showing the losing of pride just to get their love one back again and it is really sweet.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
28 Dec 11
some people believe in 2nd chance I believe in 2nd chance too, but not with the same person I can stay friends but certainly not back together it's not pride as other people may think I believe we can't avoid making mistakes but we can avoid making the same mistakes twice because life on Earth is to learn. if we make the same mistakes twice, what exactly are we learning then?
@phillyguy (3005)
• Philippines
16 Dec 11
because they still have feelings for each other and because some breakups are just a result of clash of emotions in a wrong time I'll give an example scenario a man have a problem with his work then at the same time the girl has a family problem and when they meet they have some arguments and because both of them are experiencing some personal problems their both in the bad mood and can't think clearly and just decide on things based on their present emotions and because they are both angry and feel like the other one should understand her/him more they decided to break up but after a few days they realized that their decisions is just out of emotions and that they don't really want it to happen so they will try to mend things and go back to each other. And they live happily ever after
• United States
16 Dec 11
Using my own life as an example. I am currently in a long distance relationship with someone I love very much. Because of US immigration laws it looks like the door may be shut for him to come to me. So, we are considering a breakup, even though neither of us want to and we love each other very much. We have spent time together in his country, but for me to move to his country is not an option either. So, if we breakup and sometime in the future a door should open for us to be together, we have already decided that we will be together again. So, sometimes a breakup can be something beyond a couple's control; once the situation is resolved, then the exs get back together.