accepting bad things

Indonesia
December 24, 2011 4:42pm CST
As we all know, good relationship is about understand each other and realize our partner not only strong points but also weakness points. Meaning we should know and accepting bad things about our partner a seconds after starting the relationship. Otherwise the relationship will be hard to maintain in the long run since nobody perfect. Even beautiful and smart actress has a weakness points and bad sides on theirs, iff the partner unable to accept and loved their bad parts,so very unlikely to continue the relationship. The key is to accept and loved their bad things not only the good ones..What do you think? How to handle and accept the bad things on our partner? What are the common obstacles we usually facing?
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8 responses
@mr_pearl (5037)
• India
24 Dec 11
Hello there.. I would say, accepting the partner as he/she is the best way... There is no need to make the partner as you like him/her to be.. That ain't love! That arises from the want of social reputation, or other things... But that surely isn't love... That is a compromise, where both of the partners compromise on something... So accepting your love as he/she is, is the bottomline... Take care...
• Indonesia
24 Dec 11
Well, you are right..compromising each other is the key to maintain long run relationship..we must take a compromise and accept any bad things about he/she..loved will not ended up if we able to compromise each other..appreciate your fast response..
@asliah (11148)
• Philippines
15 Sep 12
hi, thats right my friend,accepting those bad things of our partner,when we really love a person we need to accept their whole personality including their bad attitudes and manners.i think we to handle this we need more patience until we accept them.
@KrauseHome (35517)
• United States
21 Jan 12
Yes, all Relationships have their Good points and their Bad, just as all people do. I know even when I took my husband in marriage, it will always be For Richer, For Poorer, In Sickness and In Health even the days where we just feel we need a break. We have had a lot of things we have learned to overcome, mostly due to my Health, but God is in control and things are for the most part GREAT.
@chiyosan (30206)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
common would be when we try to change our partners. What we need to do is to first accept them as they are, who they are and from there make the relationship work. there is not much need for us to think about what we do not like about our partners, but make the most and always consider they are always better than we think...
26 Dec 11
In a relationship it is very important to be honest with yourself and with your partner so each one will know their limits or what are the things to do or not to do to make the relationship work. For minor weaknesses, I think for me that is acceptable and can be covered by your love but how about for big issues? like dishonesty? other parties? Would you still accept that? the bootomline here is depends on the severity of weaknesses.
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
25 Dec 11
In any kind of a relationship everything can not be all good. we have to learn to accept the bad things as well even if that is something that we would rather not have to deal with. the road is not always a smooth ones. there will be bumps along the way.
@mantab24 (28)
• Indonesia
25 Dec 11
We must be able to accept the shortcomings couples with triyng to find a balance. Do you know a pair scales? The scales will be balanced if the left side and right side have the same load. Similarly, the relationship of each pair must close the gap on the other spouse. For that prior to any prospective husband and wife married in required to understand the disadvantages of each partner and try to accept disadvantages of each pair.
@lilaclady (28240)
• Australia
24 Dec 11
yes it is a case of accepting but we must remember we never really know anyone 100%, we all keep growing and we all keep changing and everyone has a dark side.. we can see this when you see all the divorces and the stories that come with them, I would imagine all these people thought they knew the people they were marrying and trusted them 100% but the human makeup is complex and when we are in love we really are blind to a lot of things simply because most times we only see things in the way we want them to be...