Man,please don't shout to woman!

Philippines
December 24, 2011 11:06pm CST
Boy,if you want me to not shout you,shut your mouth so i will not shout you! girl,if you want me shut my mouth ,you better stop hurting me!.......do you think that they are both hurting each other...?
11 responses
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
25 Dec 11
Hi dear! Shouting on each other is really bad. Shouting does not solve a problem, rather it precipitate the matter. Shouting proves counter- productive between two partners. I try my best not to lose my temper and shout but sometimes I can not help. What about you?
• Philippines
25 Dec 11
I was, but not now.. i control it because i know it hurts other ,and later i will hurt too.. Sometimes if i a getting to much angry to my sister i shouted them ,but i pass it because i do it always,or communication will always not good..now i change ..
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
25 Dec 11
It means that now you have learnt the art of controlling yourself. Well done.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
12 Feb 12
Actually my husband and I always shouting with each other even we are just talking.. I really don't know but we are just like that always and it is more not normal if we talk in a normal voice. Many of our neighbors though we are fighting because of our high voice but we are just talking about funny stories. But i can still easily notice if he shout with angry voice.
@med889 (5941)
26 Dec 11
I think a liitle consideration should be given to a relationship before making a mountain out of a hill because no fight is great so before shouting at each other there should be a little thinking going on in the head for each other, I would never say that I never shout at my partner but I will always say that I regret it a lot to shout at him for these we could have sat on the same couch and talk about.
• Philippines
26 Dec 11
I always shout to my old aunt but she remains healthy now at 88. I'm not shouting at my grandma, mother side, but she suffered a stroke. I don't know what that means.
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
26 Dec 11
In a relationship, there should be respect. Because when you don't have respect to your partner, you go easily in hurting each other. That is bad when you just tend to shout at him. We know it is insulting to the part of the person being shouted.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
26 Dec 11
Whatever their problem is, this couple should talk about it calmly or at least not in front of other people. Both of them are just hurting each other physicall and emotionally.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
25 Dec 11
hello, They are probably hurting each other because it is obvious in their words and I think i can relate myself in to it because this happened to me and to my boyfriend. But I think this is a normal thing in a relationship.
@iklananda (1202)
25 Dec 11
I am a man tooo but my friend also shout to me. That is my best friend you know, that is very unacceptable. I ignore my friend then
@jkct02 (2874)
• Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia
25 Dec 11
Why are two people who are supposed to love each other turned to hurt each other? What have gone wrong? Perhaps it is an instance of "as I know you more, I love you less". We can not think that all relationships are going to work. There are some surely the partners are not really compatible. Maybe it is better if they can know it before it is too late. The problem is that it is not easy to realize and to take the necessary action. Love is understanding even if you don't understand it. If you must know the why all the time then it will be hard for two people to go the distance in life. If you always think with your head about your love, you will know it is not logical to fall in love with anyone. If you want to love or be loved, you follow your heart. You will not understand a lot of things but the two of you will be fine. I wonder who can do that. We are just humans.
• India
25 Dec 11
I think yes they are. Words are the biggest destructors which comes from our tongue. People just tell something to compete with others during the fight, really it is not possible to take those ones which we spits out. Each words and letters consumes togeather to form a meaningful sentence. Those one which comes from you costs a lot. Remeber that you cannot get back the ones you had. So be alert at what you are and think what it costs.
• India
25 Dec 11
easy playing between girl and boy. they are mutually irritating each other, mutually hurting, still saying shut up your mouth.hahahahah