would you like to fall in love with a poor man?

China
December 26, 2011 9:11am CST
what kind of person you want to fall in love with? do you really believe in true love? for this question diferennt people have diferent opinions: some will think that wealth is the most important thing for their relationship, because with money they can lead a rich life. some people think that appearance is the most important. some people think that there is really true love, no matter how poor, how ugly so long as they love each other, they are willing to found a really relationship.
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@LadyMarissa (12161)
• United States
26 Dec 11
When it comes to love, it does NOT matter what we "want". Once we fall in love, ALL the rules fly out the window!!! Love does NOT differentiate who is rich or poor or who is ugly or good looking. My only requisite for love is their desire to love me back!!! There is NOTHING more rewarding than to be loved!!! There is NOTHING more beautiful than the face of the one you love especially if they love you back!!! YES, I believe in true love!!! Even though most of us are initially attracted to the other person's looks, in the end, looks should not be what dictates love. The most beautiful person on the face of the earth can possess the blackest heart & not be worthy of my love.Money is nice to have, but it does NOT always bring happiness so I don't find money to be a reason to fall in love...unless if only for the love of money...not love of the person!!! I loved my first husband deeply...he was good looking & relatively wealthy. I soon learned that he was a mean man & the looks & money meant NOTHING without true love!!! My last husband was average looking, without a job & no money. Yet he loved me with ALL his heart as I loved him. We had the most WONDERFUL life together!!! I feel sorry for those who marry just for the looks or the money as there is soooo MUCH MORE to love than the superficial things in life!!!
@LadyMarissa (12161)
• United States
30 Dec 11
Thank You For The BR!!!
THANK YOU FOR THE BR!!!
@bubuth (1816)
• Philippines
12 Feb 12
Me and my husband are came from in an average family and we are not rich family. I think there are possibilities that i can fall in love in a poor man because i don't want to under estimate the ability of poor man on how he will raise his family. The more important for me is he is earning money in decent way. I think i can also earn money in my own way by having my own job so it will not be a big deal if he is earning only small amount of income.
• Philippines
27 Dec 11
When you fall in love with a certain person it does not matter who he/she is, when you find your true love you would accept and love him for what he/she is and what he/she has..falling in love is a magical thing. But in reality some has their other intentions because of the money or wealth of that person and they are after for that and that falling in love with the money not for the person qualities, behavior, attitudes of that person
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
27 Dec 11
As the saying goes- "love is blind". So,love conquers all, against all the odds. There is no rich-poor,ugly- beauty when it comes to love. LOve doesn't know any disability,shortcoming or racism. It is the person who feel the discrimination or ill-feeling/s. For me- love matters most, not the physical looks or status in life.
@swissheart (6486)
• Romania
26 Dec 11
love doesn;t have anything with money...so I guess I could. I couldn't stand the idea of someone giving me money. I consider myself independent and I like to think I;m smart enough to get my own money. If I love someone I love him for what he is and not what he has in his pocket
@gadnynj (75)
• Bayonne, New Jersey
26 Dec 11
For what ever it's worth; A rich man a poor man; both are men; might as well go for the rich man. Both will have the same nature; both are men. Most of the time the female carries the weight of the house hold, if there is no money, she will feel the impact. She is the maternal one. Men are the heroes and the providers; might as well go for the man that will make her life easier; seeing that the poor man and the rich man are both men. Will will face the same optical. It's really up to the woman to choose what will be best for her; for her was is most important is that the needs of her family are met; go for the rich one!
• Philippines
26 Dec 11
I had a 'crush' on a guy who is way out of my league one time, and my girls would go mock and tell me, I shouldn't settle, that I deserve better and stuff. I held their best intentions at heart, but in my mind I believe that as much as I deserve better, I also deserve to be happy, and if the guy I was eyeing on can make me happy regardless of what part of society he comes from, I'd still go take my chances. For me it depends on how much I love the guy, and how much he loves me. For me, if I really love someone, I'll want to become a better person to be worthy of him, and I'll want him to be happy, whatever that means, and if that guy loves me too, he'll want to become a better person for me too, and not because I asked him to change, but because he wanted to grow and be a better person with me, and he'd also want me to be happy without compromising his own happiness. So yes, I believe in true love, and I can fall in love with a 'poor man'---as long he'll be decided to become better than who he is, and maximize his being and be able to love me with no stain of doubt or insecurity. I believe in the kind of true love that can make things happen, that makes you cling onto the faith that the universe would eventually conspire to make the love last. :)
@jazzyrae (1747)
• United States
26 Dec 11
i dont think that if yu are looking for love you shoulod not be looking for love that is not love that is selfishness. money dose not =money i am in love with my boyfriend but we are by no means rich or poor we work hard and are comfortable. that is the way we like it not that we would complain if we suddenly became rich millionaires lol. but love is not bassed on the amount of money a person generates
@hnaboro (113)
• Uganda
26 Dec 11
Love is blind to everything, Social standing, wealth, education, health. When people fall in Love they forget any hindrances . it is only when it isnt love that people begin to see how deep the pockets are and so forth. Personally, I can fall in Love with a poor man with out a second thought
26 Dec 11
Love does not see rich or poor , white or black . we love people for what they are from inside and what touches us . A relationship which have a foundationof trust stayed for lifetime . Love is a commitment for life time .