Dont cry in love..................from a guy who died in love...:(

India
December 27, 2011 4:50am CST
a guy....who was failing in life..... met this angel...she helped him stand up... he fell for her... thinking shes the one.... lived every single moment for seeing her smile.... for looking into her eyes.... sad....so sad .... dat shes already in a relation... crying is an art of wending out your feelings.... bah....:')
5 responses
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
27 Dec 11
Go on and cry that will make you feel better afterwards. Sometimes we fell in love with people so easily not really knowing that they are already with someone. Just try to move on and for sure you are gonna meet someone like her.
• India
27 Dec 11
yeah... cryin does the trick... but for a short duration... and thats true love...wht yu mentioned... ... ...moving on is the most difficult part... you cant stop thinkin bout her... yu can never accept ....the fact dat shes in love with some other guy.....:( dats a very sad feeling...
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
27 Dec 11
Like what most people say... Time is the best healer. You may be in so much pain now and crying about it. But there is still life after realizing she's in a relationship now. Sooner or later someone will come your way again and you will soon forget about her.
• India
28 Dec 11
yeah it will take some tym....i know...:') but i really thought she was the one........ .....she deserves better...maybe dats why...shes in love with another guy... yea...i'l move on...i will... i so hope i find the right girl...who would love me for what i am....:;)
@francesca5 (1344)
27 Dec 11
falling in love with somebody who is very nice to us is a beautiful thing, but if she was already in a relationship then that was no good. the best thing you can do is see this as a experience that was useful, as if you were failing in life before you met her maybe you need to love yourself more, so you aren't so dependant on other people for love. which doesn't mean that love is wrong, its a beautiful thing, it just means that if you love yourself then you will manage hurt better, and hopefully the next time you meet someone as lovely as her she will be free to love you too.
28 Dec 11
yes, but when we feel vulnerable and someone is kind to us it easy to make that mistake. what you need to think about is how you learn to love yourself, which makes me sound like terrible new age healing type person, but there is some truth in what they say.
• India
28 Dec 11
i made that mistake...:( and i know what you meant...and its 100% right... love yourself.... but the thing is that...i love her more than i ever loved me...
• India
28 Dec 11
thanks a lot francesa5.... love sure is a beautiful thing... i misunderstood her care for me as love... i know... it was my mistake...:( but... my love for her was true.... takes time to replace her from my life....:(
• Philippines
29 Dec 11
Sorry to hear that my friend. Its okay to cry, just let it go, feel the pain and sadness, but don't worry your weary heart will soon recover and move on to find another love for a life time... Maybe you are not just meant for each other. Just believe that everything happens for a reason, every pain, tears and sadness will surely replaced by happiness and contentment if you'll just open your heart. Don't close your doors my friend. Sooner or later, someone better for you will come, they may just be there beside or along the way waiting for their knight in shining armor. ;-).... I hope and pray that someday when you finally meet your one true love, you will look back, smile and say - "Thank God it happened anyway. ;-)".... Happy new year and happy mylotting!
• India
29 Dec 11
yeah...god has another plan for me... i feel good after locking myself in a room and crying... it really does the trick...but its a temporary cure.... but...whenever i look back at the moments where i lived my life the most...that is with her ...i feel so sad.... hope you understand me
@boyuancy (1708)
• India
27 Dec 11
Hi Kalebtheman and welcome to myLot. I know it can be really hard to let go of a person with whom you have an emotional bond, and more importantly, who helped you in times of trouble. But you have to just wait and let destiny make it's call. Hope you get the one you love, cheers.
• India
28 Dec 11
thanks a lot boyuancy... yeah...your right... but...i cant get her out of my mind.... also...i cant accept the fact dat shes in love with another guy.... she was sooo...nice to me... yea...i misunderstood her care as love.... :(
@BoboMama (319)
• India
6 Jan 12
its okay , just weep over it for a moment then you'll never cry about such things never again :D
• India
6 Jan 12
are you being sarcastic? lolz...yeah its an old chapter in life. now its over. and am happy about it...:)