when you did not like your office mate

@adhyz82 (36289)
Indonesia
December 28, 2011 1:02pm CST
whats happen for you, if you don`t like your office mate?? when you always make sick when must to see her or his again and again?? what do you want to do, your spirit and passion for working always lost when meet him or her again??
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@mantis36 (4238)
• Philippines
4 Jan 12
it is part of the job, no matter what hate i have with my office mate before, i still show him/her hospitality, but with regards to customer, those customer that always complain a lot without any valid reason, i sometimes debate defensively, that i am just following instructions or whatever.
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@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
5 Jan 12
really?/if somebody else had attacked my personality and it`s not related with my work, what can i do when my heart is hard for thingking she as my office mate..
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
5 Jan 12
iam hard for giving my hospitality again for the person who always attack behind me..
@mantis36 (4238)
• Philippines
5 Jan 12
but i believe too that for every rule, there is an exceptions there are limits to everything, maybe he/she needs a lesson just like martial arts are only used for avoidance of trouble, but if trouble cannot be avoided at all, then we......
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 11
Each of us do not like someone, there must be a reason. If I do not like, I do not care about any of my office mate did. The important thing for me, I can do all the work well. If we have to work together, I will separate the issues, and work well together.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 11
well it`s hard for working together with a friend who never respect you it`s hard for working together with a friend who always talk you behind of you
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
31 Dec 11
It is very difficult, working together with people we dislike. But, we must be professional. If you do not override your heartache, you will not be able to work well. Do you want to, get out of your job? If not, you do not let hurt controlling you. You must be patient. If spoken by your office mate, behind you is wrong, you do not have to hurt. Other people can judge who is right, and who is wrong. People who slander, will have its own punishment. And your sins, will be taken, by your office mate.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
31 Dec 11
i had do as professional.. i had took all my patience when must to see her..
@ifa225 (11099)
• Indonesia
18 Jan 12
It is easy adhy..... Try to leap and look for another opportunity. Find another job in another office. Or you can oretend that she/he does not exist..ignore the person and u will be happy
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
19 Jan 12
ifa, my boss did not trust me anymore.. and i think i must change my motivation here.. i think i did not continue here..i only finish this semester and then i must move to another office
@ifa225 (11099)
• Indonesia
20 Jan 12
I hope you can find a btter office adhy there is still many office that need and want you and respect you..i bet. Just believe that the right person always win in the end
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@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
20 Jan 12
yes i do hope like that..
• India
17 Sep 12
Hi friend, if i hate my office mate, i just keep distance from him/her and try my maximum to avoid seeing him, i don't lose my working spirit while seeing them. Always i will do my work with the same tempo and this kind of hatred never change my job conscious activities
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
17 Sep 12
so it`s my style too i don`t want to interact with the unfriendly workmate.. like you said, i don`t want they bother my day!!
@asliah (11149)
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
hi, there were times that i experienced that,but of course i love my work so i endured and ignore that person even i really dont like her,yeah she really ruined my days everytime i saw her passing thru may path way,so to ignore her i just dont see or even to attempt to look at her.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
17 Sep 12
i see.. so when we ignore them, we can focus only for our occupation right??
• Mexico
31 Dec 11
Hi adhyz; It's not a really pleasant situation to don't feel well with your working mate so I think that in these cases you just need to make things professional, just talking to these person for personal reasons and being polite. The fact that you don't like that person doesn't mean that you have to be always fighting or to let you feel affected ALVARO
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
1 Jan 12
of course it`s not good situation.. i had separated with my best force between professionalism and personal affairs..i try the best..
@Sanitary (3969)
• Singapore
30 Dec 11
Since both of u are working together in the same office, u have no choice but to try working well with them. Imagine the amount of time both of u are seeing in the office, isn't it better to be friends than foes? Try understanding each other better, open up about the dislikes between the both of u, and that will break the barrier. Once u have a colleague, it makes your time in office more enjoyable and also makes time pass faster too.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 11
yes, maybe..i had no choice beside it.. but if i can avoid for working together, is it wrong??
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