it's really hard to see the person you like who love someone else. :(
January 5, 2012 7:48am CST
it's really frustrating and devastating, if you found out that the person you like loves someone else . :'( Just recently, my heart got closer to her, as if our hearts are in harmony, I thought I got her heart, because where treating each other special, but when I saw her profile in facebook, her ex boyfriend said, "I love you too, Yes, where in peace and we're on again" , and I know, that comment hits me, he surely post it to her profile, so that I could see it . :( I really felt bad cuz, I started to hope, but that's my biggest mistake.
5 Jan 12
The big question is if this girl and her ex are back together. If they are not together, I think the ex is bitter about his 'big lost' and knows she's into you so he posted that comment for you to see. But if in case they are on, then let go. You deserve so much better and don't lose hope...
• South Korea
5 Jan 12
That was exactly what I thought too! There are chances that the ex is still an ex. From my earlier experience, I have learned that if you love someone, confess it. The chances are he/she might be feeling the same. It would suck to know later that the person liked you back too but both were just waiting for the other to tell :((
5 Jan 12
Lovin' hurts Sad fact! But would she intentionally make you see it? Maybe it was posted there just for the sake of her friends knowing it. You just feel bad because you care for her and love her. Well, that is life. You need to move on. Enjoy life. And maybe you'll find someone special again. All the best!
• United Arab Emirates
6 Jan 12
:).. Carlotay123, I even have a more painful story.. After dating my husband for years and marrying him. I knew that he had a girlfriend in his past but that was past. I do not care about past, present is what is most important to me. Second day of my marriage, my husband was all lost. I asked him what is wrong, are you not happy? U know what his reply was? He said that "I wish I had given her a chance to marry me, i'll always keep wondering how it would have been, I dont think so anybody can ever love me the way she did" .. I dumped my education, my high profile career, my friends, my family just for him.. And this is what I got in return.. That my husband holds feelings for his ex, who is God knows where! my love, my sacrifices all were useless, because I could not take her place!! This is the biggest Mistake ever!
8 Jan 12
you can still continue to like her even though she doesn't feel the same way as you do..maybe you both are better as friends..just accept that she love's someone else and she's happy with him..but hope you will still continue to be her friend..because i'm sure she'll be upset also if you'll avoid her because of that..
6 Jan 12
Definitely! I could relate to this one. It's so hard when you expect so much and then you assume you're both in love. It's hurtful, don't hope. Things like that do happen and it happen to me most often and I just get on and then forget. That is how life should be.:) Trial and error.hehe.