Find a way to solve it instead of keeping it inside your heart

Malaysia
January 6, 2012 3:32pm CST
this is for those people who is in this situation, pretending to be happy when you're in pain is just an example of how strong you are as a person "in front of people" :( and it's killing you everyday :( i know how it feels, because i had been through this before, find a way to solve it instead of keeping it inside your heart :)
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4 responses
• India
7 Jan 12
I'd say forget about all the bad things that has evr happened to you and live life to its fullest.probs will be solved automatically
• Malaysia
7 Jan 12
sometimes forget is the hardest thing to do, because they hold it for such a long time already, but still have to try~
• India
7 Jan 12
think about all the good things god has given u. see how lucky yu are. time is best healer.just take your time and be yourself :)
• Malaysia
10 Jan 12
yeah, you are right :)
• Russian Federation
7 Jan 12
yes, I am in the situation like this. I am very angry with my friend. She writes me every day and pretends that nothing happened. but... i can not say annything to her... i just have to pretend that i do not care.. but at the same time it is killing me inside.. i know it depends on me... but ican not say anything
• Malaysia
7 Jan 12
ohh..that is not good, if she is really your friend, you gonna have to tell her the truth, we have our freedom to say anything, or else it will continue like this
@yahnee (1250)
• Philippines
7 Jan 12
Smiling while your heart is bleeding is one very difficult thing to do. However, in front of family and friends I have to look normal and happy otherwise, they will think that something is wrong. It's pretense but I just have to do it so as not to get sympathy which I hate. I always try to act normal but when I am by myself, I feel the pain and the disappointment engulfing me. I am doing my best to solve this problem, but unless a miracle happens, I don't know how I will ever overcome this feelings.
• Malaysia
7 Jan 12
sometimes we cant do it all on our own, we are just human, our strength is limited at some point, that's why we need to pray for God's help, with HIM, everything is possible :) you just need to have faith upon him...:)
@lilaclady (28240)
• Australia
6 Jan 12
This is very good advice, I think many people mainly women I think live like this. As we all know it is not alwats easy to just go on but we must try, as life is way too short to waste.