do you always update status when you angry?/

@adhyz82 (36289)
Indonesia
January 8, 2012 9:57am CST
i noticed there are many people always update their status when their feeling is not good, when they must be angry..they always update status especially when they had conflict with their lover.. it`s ridicoulous i think.. why??because today you had conflict with him or her, but tomorrow you and him or her had been in good too.. so why do you must waste many useless word in your wall facebook?? sometimes i notice because of the mouth or useless word, your facebook will bring disaster for you.. what is your opinion guys..
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28 responses
• Indonesia
20 Jan 12
I can't blame others for that. To be honest, i'm used to do it, too, back then couple years ago. I update status in Twitter actually, not in Facebook, especially when i'm getting grudge with a colleague in my late office. But I started to learn from wise words in the net, that it's not a good thing to do. And I was doing it back then when i have no particular followers. Since now I learn that it's not a positive thing to do, and also can make my followers or my readers get intrigued by it, i just stopped doing it for now.
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@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
20 Jan 12
i see.. you had learned so well.. it will avoid you get many problems because the controversial status i think
@MissPiggy (1751)
• Indonesia
12 Jan 12
Lol. U're right. Sometimes I write about how I feel on facebook; everytime I feel happy, or sad, or angry. However, I rarely mention a specific name. Besides, not many people know about my personal life. And the people on my list aren't just my daily friends and acquaintances. So why waste my time explaining to those who don't know in case they're asking? :D I've ever done this silly thing, but then I thought it's stupid. :D Mostly I prefer to update some inspirational quotes to inspire not only me, but also others. I get more positive respond that way. And I think it's silly updating everything on facebook (or maybe other networkings) where people (even strangers) can literally "read" ur life. But u know what? I think it's also a matter of gender. Lol. I mean, girls tend to tell the world what's happening with them while boys prefer to keep it in silence. :D So as this discussion comes from a guy, then of course u'd say it's silly. But if there are girls comment on this discussion, I think they'd disagree with u (well, some of them). O:)
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
12 Jan 12
i see..the brief and clearly explanation.. so in your experience, you always be careful for posting anything in facebook.. don`t you ever get problem because maybe you are wrong when posting something in your wall or your friend wall??
@MissPiggy (1751)
• Indonesia
12 Jan 12
Mm...yeah, I think I've ever updated a status about a game I play on facebook. I got more than 150 comments. Lol. And plus, some messages from the admin of the group that i joined. It was quite an update. Lol. But I always know what I wrote. So at that time, I really meant to write the status, but I didn't wish to get so much respond. :D
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
12 Jan 12
so, what about if your facebook friend don`t like a game like me?/do you removed too??
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
9 Jan 12
I'm not make status, when arguing with my husband. Because, my facebook friends, is my family. But, sometimes I make status of satire, for someone who makes me angry, or offended. If I was arguing with my husband, I do not have the courage, to do anything. Moreover, making the status on facebook. My husband will get angry. Moreover, my husband can open my facebook. Because, my husband knows my facebook password.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
9 Jan 12
actually you can change your facebook pasword if you want to.. the problem is maybe your husband will be thingking that maybe you did not want to be monitored..thats difficult situation i think yes, some like me,..when iam getting problem in my office, i try not to post that in my facebook..i had many friends mate in office and of course my students as my facebook friends...
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
10 Jan 12
I can not change their, my facebook password. I do not want to make trouble again.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
10 Jan 12
actually if your husband really understand you, the case like yesterday should not happen.. everything can be talked with a good emotion i think..why he must bring many jealous and always accuse you??sometimes i dont understand
@bubuth (1816)
• Philippines
8 Jan 12
Sometimes i post in facebook when im angry or if i can't control my feelings but i don't post the details why i feel angry..i only post "grr" or "nakakainis" that means annoying. But when it comes to my relationship i don't post anything in facebook because i want to keep it private to our neighbors because i think if i post something bad about relationship they will make gossips.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
8 Jan 12
yes, thats good..all the business with your boyfriend, only you and your boyfriend know it. why we must open all of our private things for public??
@bubuth (1816)
• Philippines
9 Jan 12
one time i make discussion about my relationship problem here in mylot because i don't know what solution i will do to make it alright again and i am so confused that time to ask suggestion from a friend personally so that's why i ask opinion from our mylotter friends. I think making discussion here in mylot is more private than facebook and that's also my reason why i post here instead in facebook.. Happy Mylotting..
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
9 Jan 12
i see.. because maybe many of your real friends did not become mylot member..right??
@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
8 Jan 12
I never update my status in FB whenever I have conflicts with my BF. But I remember posting sad songs which I get on you tube. Getting a line from the song and putting it before the song link. But when someone asked why I put those lines and those songs... I would just say I am just on emo mode or I will simply say that I just like the song and nothing else. But I have noticed some people do that. WHen I was really active in FB before, I used to know from the status when someone's marriage is on the rocks or someone finally broke up with their partner. Now that I am not there the whole time, I think it's way better not to know anything about their relationship anymore.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
8 Jan 12
so where do you want to communicate your sadness or your happyness beside Facebook?? it`s trend in indonesia, most of facebook user can`t separate which is term private area and public area..and sometimes it endanger them.
@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
9 Jan 12
When I was new here I used to vent it out here. But then sometimes I feel I shouldn't do it every time I feel sad or broken. Not always. But it's fine to put it here. I just don't like to post it on Facebook. It's better to tell it to a bestfriend than telling it to the whole world.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
9 Jan 12
what about in mylot?/do you always too in your mylot account??
@bhekoh (10)
19 Jan 12
I dont really update my status if i am angry,well once in a while not really often.If i am angry i just keep it to myself.I am a quite person and private person.I update status if there is something interesting happen to my life,thats i alwats do.I have friends are so addicted in facebook they update their facebook every second of the day.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
19 Jan 12
i see..maybe you don`t want add many problems because update your status
@bhekoh (10)
19 Jan 12
I just dont want anyone to worry about me..I am a good adviser incomes of other people problem.I am kinda quite person really and sometimes a shy type.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
19 Jan 12
i see..thats good friend..you use facebook for kindness
@secretbear (19472)
• Philippines
16 Jan 12
Hi! I learned not to update my Facebook status when I'm angry especially if it's about work. I have learned my lesson before. I posted something about work and it's full of emotions and it ended up being known by our boss. She's not even my friend in FB. She doesn't even have an account! It just so happen that when my friend read my post, someone was reading from behind him and that person told about it to our boss. And this particular boss of ours is dangerous. She collects every bad things about you and use it against you in evaluating you. So you end up having a bad evaluation. What's bad is, even if that bad things are personal and don't concern work. So now, I don't update my status when I'm angry and I have deleted "friends" who I can't trust anymore. I just update my status and put something positive and nice.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
16 Jan 12
wow...if it`s about your office mate, i ever get experienced like that the worst, they tell behind me in their wall of facebook..thats too bad, if the facebook was used like that..
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@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
19 Jan 12
yes, now i hear many student or children was kidnapped because of facebook..it`s terrible
@Aja103654 (5663)
• Philippines
9 Jan 12
It's not something to be surprised about. naturally, people want an outlet for their emotions and they want attention, they want someone to agree with them so they post it somewhere public to gain allies of some sort. Stupid, I believe for lovers to do this. It's very inappropriate and immature. Love affairs are supposed to be private matter, not news for people on facebook. Though I believe some facebook people enjoy this kind of post, it's still wrong. Again, I deal with this annoying problem by ignoring them or not logging on to facebook at all. so many people spreading their foolishness to the entire world. So many things better off not being published.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
9 Jan 12
i see..everybody sometimes need a friend when they are angry they need many people agree and support him when they are so weak.. i understand,..thats human..but if you always and always update status when you are so weak, i just believe many people dislike it..because when you update your status, information about your wall appear in your friend information and sometimes it really annoyed
@Aja103654 (5663)
• Philippines
12 Jan 12
haha, yes. I only got to do this once but I didn't post it on anyone's wall where everybody could see it. I chatted with a friend who was online at the time and she comforted me. having told one person about it seems enough.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
12 Jan 12
i see..i get your point buddy
@mantis36 (4238)
• Philippines
9 Jan 12
i just remember what my previous teen friends before, about the old diary, they then to express their feelings and emotions through that simple book of diary before, diary is now newly called as blogs, and facebook i think is their friend.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
9 Jan 12
yes i ever get the word or statement like that when blogs is same like diary online diary but the problem now, your diary is not belongs on you yourself..it`s public own mantis..and everybody can read your writing
@mantis36 (4238)
• Philippines
9 Jan 12
why i never notice this before, now that i know the very big difference between a Blog and a Diary, that a blog has no privacy, and very true, anyone can read it.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
9 Jan 12
and diary is only for you.. thats the biggest difference
@myzhian (586)
• Philippines
8 Jan 12
I did it once before but I never did it again because it doesn't help me solve the problem at all!
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
8 Jan 12
so after that??it make disaster for you when you update something in your mind when you are angry??
@myzhian (586)
• Philippines
9 Jan 12
I got nothing from it! And i never did it again! Thank goodness, Nothing disastrous happen!
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
9 Jan 12
thats good..nothing bad happens after you post that and thats good again when you said that after that you never put the bad comment again..
• Philippines
16 Jan 12
No because I believe that if I have nothing good to say, I'd better be quiet. Doing that is a sign of immaturity. Besides, some things are better left unsaid. I will be proud to share good tidings to the world and post them on my FB, but not the emotional statuses that will me and and my readers any good.
• Philippines
16 Jan 12
CORRECTION: that will not do me and my readers any good.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
16 Jan 12
first, i just want welcome back..your post is much, but i never see your discussion or respond your discussion, so i guess maybe you are older member which come back here..so welcome back.. yes, sometimes quiet is better than talk..sometimes talk is silver but be queiet is gold..
• Philippines
9 Jan 12
I always update my status whenever or whatever i feel for a certain day.It is so stupid if you post something bad against your lover or family or friends, it does not help in solving the problem anyway.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
9 Jan 12
but if your feeling is not good, can you controlled everything that you post in youw wall of facebook??
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
9 Jan 12
so sometimes everybody say that facebook is like knife..sometimes will be useful for you but sometimes make trouble for you
@asliah (11149)
• Philippines
19 Sep 12
hi, actually i dont use to put a status in my Facebook account when i am angry to someone,i will just simply send a message or put in her/his wall my feelings when i am angry to a person that usually their in Facebook.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
19 Sep 12
it is good attitude.. what about when you are angry with your boyfriend?? is it enough for sending him message??
@jordq7 (576)
• Philippines
14 Jan 12
Hi there adhyz82!! Well I do sometimes update or post into my facebook wall when I feel bad or angry.But whenever I do this I make sure that I change the privacy setting and adjust who can see it.Most of the time I change it to make it hidden to everyone except me.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
14 Jan 12
oh i see..you don`t want somebody else is offended because of your status
12 Jan 12
i ever did it on my facebook when i was angry with my friend, feel sad or disappointed with someone. you know what i ever made someone felt so angry because of it. i prefer to discuss it directly to share it in the facebook. i realize now that it's not wise thing to do. so i try to reduce that bad habit.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
12 Jan 12
i see..yes, try for reducing the bad habit. it can make you get one new problem please add me as your facebook friend, if you dont mind, and i invite you in mylot group in facebook
@Sanitary (3969)
• Singapore
11 Jan 12
It's free so why not make full use of it? What's wrong in sharing stuffs and our current emotions? It's better to let known than to hide everything inside us. Overtime, those suppressed feelings may lead to depression and isn't that much worse? If we are not updating our status on FB, we would be telling some of our close friends and eventually things do spread. What's the difference anyway? IN a relationship, 3rd parties always know it best.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
12 Jan 12
i know that facebook is free service.. but sometimes we get a stupid people who only make mistake or want to looking for a new enemy...because of their mouth, they get problem..
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@aerous (13475)
• Philippines
9 Jan 12
Yup! I notice also that in facebook, my friend. That maybe their solution to alleviate how they disappointed in someone else that is why they need to do it
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
10 Jan 12
maybe..some of them always talk about their bad moments when with their boyfriend or girlfriend.. i dont think it`s useful when you are only talking bad about your lover.. and whats happen if your lover did not accept what you are talking in your wall??
@narnia007 (1051)
• India
9 Jan 12
I have this kind of things many times too.When I asked about this to them,one reason they told was that,this is their way of expressing their anger to their lover.They say,its easier to express in writing than words when it comes to fight.Now that facebook has become one's essential things in life,no wonder it has become the mode of communication.I would say,no other job than spending time in facebook to make up for the time when are alone after the fight.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
9 Jan 12
narnia, your nickname remind me about the title of movies..narnia legend if iam not wrong.. yes, sometimes i see like that..when they are boring because their lover never call them, the best way and the good way in their mind is only expressing what their angry and anger to their lover in wall.. but sometimes they insult their lover..what a pity.. of course as normally, if somebody else insult you in the public area, some of you maybe dont like..and maybe because update status like that, it`s not solving one problem but making one problem
@taomoney (649)
• Hong Kong
9 Jan 12
I will not when i am angry. But I will when i am happy or I am sad. I want to share my happiness, so i will update status. When i am sad, i want other to avoid me or to understand i am not in normal situation. Then i will update it. But no when i am angry as people should not be angry all the time!! We should be i peace mood but not angry mood.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
9 Jan 12
whats up if you are in not normal situation??you can be a tiger if someone touch you when you aren`t in normal situation??
@brew2x (3096)
• Philippines
9 Jan 12
I don't update my status in facebook when I'm angry. I've noticed some people to this, I think they are just trying to get attention and sympathy whenever they do this. They look like a fool as well after saying lots of negative things to someone and end up being with him / her again especially just after a few minutes, hours or days.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
9 Jan 12
yes sometimes the word was written is useless and had no meaning..some of them is only for getting attention for their friend.. even i had ever gotten the friends who push me for liking their status..what a pity