It's Not Good

United States
January 9, 2012 1:08am CST
I have fell in love with my friend and now it seems like our friendship is done. after living with them, we started too enjoy each others fun and activities when we were and that became to bring us, I guess alittle to close. I well say that my feeling for them were true but seems I only felt them, as they say, and now I'm kinda feeling alone, after she moved out and when too experience life with a new career. I am happy for them, just now the love I have for them is just something I'll have to get over with and hay, as they say, man up.
3 responses
@Mashnn (4501)
9 Jan 12
That what you need to do right now. Understand that your friend will not be there for you for the rest of your life. Learn to survive without friends and teach yourself fun things that you can do alone.
• United States
9 Jan 12
True, it does seem that way. Thanks.
10 Jan 12
Yea getting with a friend can be very challenging. There are all these feelings and unspoken expectations that only complicate the friendship. Depending on the extent of the friendship, the friendship could be lost in all the drama. Now you are left with no friend and no lover. It was probably for the best, there might be a chance to fix the friendship.
@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
10 Jan 12
Cheer up. We can never expect other to have the same feeling toward us. When people get together too often, that is when there is a possibility that you would fall in love with one of your friends. However, friendship will often break as the person may feel uncomfortable with us after rejecting us. You have to decide whether or not to let them know and you must be prepare for the consequences that may arise. Anyway, you will meet some new people in the future, don't worry about it.