Give Your Best Shot, There Might Be No Next Chance!
By xien2xien
@xien2xien (1382)
Philippines
January 22, 2012 4:57pm CST
Some people always think that if you really love someone set them free then if they do come back maybe she/he belongs to you, but i totally disagree with this, if one time in your life they had loved you, then they won't let you go and you won't have to let them go either, but since they wanted to go away maybe they doesn't love you anymore or they found someone else better than you.
I don't also believe that love is sweeter the second time around, cause for me all of the first experience were special, like the first time you realized you loved them, the first time they told you they love you, the first date, first kiss, the first time the girl said yes even the first gift.
I just think the second chances were a little bit mature and knows what to do since they've learned from their first time mistakes and situation, but still first time counts a lot and you should give it your best shot cause maybe after your first time there won't be another chance
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7 responses
@ladygator (3465)
• United States
23 Jan 12
I think the saying is best for the ones that feel that they need to go someplace to get something in order. Or better their-self. Like when they go away to school. If its meant to be they will return later on down the road. It doesnt always mean that they want to leave its just something that needs to be done. I agree on the first's they are special and so when you go through some weathered storms of your love, they will always be extra special...
@leeannahewitt21 (97)
• United States
25 Jan 12
i wish mine was extra special alot bc when i was happy when i was 16 i had a boyfriend for about 2 years and then we broke up n my heart never really healed rite but now i am ok
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
27 Jan 12
yep! I don't believe in 2nd chance
it never turns out good anyway
maybe I don't love enough, maybe I just haven't found anyone worthy 2nd chance
nothing to do with pride, I just don't see why a person that does not appreciate love, will somehow out of the sudden appreciates it LOL
in fact, if he changes now, he will change back in the future
so I'd rather cut myself some slack and move on with new people
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
23 Jan 12
I agree with you - we have to give our best on the first time itself. If not, then we might not have a second chance. If it's about love too, and you have hurt someone I don't think the person you fail or hurt won't trust you anymore. However, if one is lucky enough to be given a chance, then he has to make it right this time. So it still can be sweeter, that is when one must prove that he will never hurt you so much like before.
I disagree a bit on the first statement you said. Sometimes we let go of someone not only because they don't love us anymore or they have found someone else better than us. Sometimes we let go of someone too when they choose to pursue and prioritize their career and we were asked to wait. Sometimes it is better to let go a person so they can concentrate on making their life better while we do our own thing too. If it comes back and you are still single, then there might be a second chance.
@smurfysmurf (651)
• Philippines
23 Jan 12
Yeah, I agree. First chances and first times do counts a lot. I could even refresh my memories with my first experiences in life but I totally forgot now the second time I experienced that one. Our firsts would really remain not just in our hearts but with our minds.
We do have different view about this because others would say that when it comes to love it is more sweeter if it's second time already but that is if they let go of the past and move on to a bright second chance.
But, in any ways, we should definitely give our best shots. It's not good to just depend everything on second chances. We might regret it if we won't give our all...most especially at work..or even the opportunities.
Happy Mylotting.
@leeannahewitt21 (97)
• United States
24 Jan 12
i had this one guy i loved for about 3 years and we broke up it hurt me the most because he acted like it was my fault he cheated on me with his next door neighbor that was not my fault bc i never told him to cheat on me then i got pregant and he wanted to tell me that he would help me with my baby
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
23 Jan 12
I agree. Because you cannot get back the relationship if you don't get him/her back. You have to do something before the destiny moves. I also agree that the first time is the best because it is the first time that you will experience everything that you didn't feel before.
