guys getting girls pregant

United States
January 25, 2012 9:32am CST
i think there is no reason for a guy to get a girl pregant and then up and leave them it is so wrong even when the girl gots to take care of the baby on her on i am speaking from expreince because my boyfriend done the same thing to me when i was 3 wks pregant, it hurt alot but if i had to do it all over again i rather have a guy helping me more than anything
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@shibham (17025)
• India
26 Jan 12
I understand your feelings and condition. You are also a fool and not only you, most girls.... why you jumped to a physical condition without knowing him completely. If he convinced you and you became on his words then are not you a fool? dont mind, it may hurt you. Secondly, i am always angry with such guys who takes the chances of love, its not love, its just lust and you are victim. So sad. Hope new rays are around you. have a nice time.
• United States
26 Jan 12
i wish they were but it has not been easy to finda guy to stay with me becuase my parents are always in and out of the hospital n it is hard to have a boyfriend and a kid on top of it and sometimes i wish i just could tell these guys if you don't want to stay with the girl then don't lead them on
@CRIVAS (1820)
• Canada
25 Jan 12
First off, I have to say that no one is going to take care of you, unless you start taking care of yourself. I think that you are better off without this boyfriend, if he was willing to give up on you at this important state in your life, who is to say that he wouldn't do worse. I believe that you are a smart, strong girl and you will do just fine. You need to remember that just because it would be easier to have him around, doesn't mean that it would be for the best. My best friend went through the same thing and I have to say that she is better off without him. She has found another man, one who treated her and her son like gold. They got married and have two more wonderful children. I know that if she had not taken good care of herself, and not let some guy walk all over her, she never would have met her husband. I hope that things work out for you, just remember that if you ever have questions, just ask us here on mylot. We would be happy to help.
• United States
13 Feb 12
i have been taking care of my self for a year and hope that somebody will hang out with a perfect man one of these days
• United States
25 Jan 12
The guys must get scared or something about a women telling them they are pregnant. I dont know why guys do this but there sure is a lot of guys that abondon there kids in life. Some may never even know they have kids. I have a friend that had her baby at the age of 17 and the kid is an amazing little camper and baseball player just like his dad was in high school. His dad wants nothing to do with him at all and also doesnt care at all because child support has never been seen for him ever. His mom stepped up for alittle bit and helped out with babysitting and what not as well but the dad of the child doesnt do anything for him at all.
• United States
25 Jan 12
i know but it is hard n i wish i had a guy that would help me with her n then i have to take care of my best friends newborn bc she cant do it by herself when she was 14 she had her first child then this newborn is her second baby