your best friend's partner is cheating

Romania
January 28, 2012 3:37pm CST
so what if you found out that your best friend's partner is cheating on him her...would you tell him? to tell you the truth I think I would probably tell him. I know that this shouldn't be my business but I put myself into my friend's position and I would definitely want to know if my partner was cheating on me
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@bubuth (1816)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
Just make sure that he is really cheating because there is a possibility that if you will tell it to your friend automatically he will talk to her partner about it and there is a possibility that he may deny it. There is also possibility that if the guy can make a perfect alibi even he really do cheat,it may cause that you friend think that you are trying to destroy there relationship. You must also look for some evidence.
• Kenya
28 Jan 12
Oh yes i would. How can your turn a blind eye on your best friend and still claim to care for him. I would also expect him to do the same for me if i was being played.
@lilaclady (28245)
• Australia
28 Jan 12
I think to get involved can be a risk as your friend would not be happy and if their partner gets to talk his way out of it which they sometimes do then it will be you on the outer but then looking at if from the other side I would be angry with a friend for not telling me so I guess it is a very hard situation to be in, maybe as a previous answer talk to the chater first but then that could get you into trouble as well...thats a very hard one...
• United States
28 Jan 12
I would deffinately tell. Friends are supossed to look out for one anther. What kind of a friend would you be to let someone hurt your friend in that.
@marianne87 (3526)
28 Jan 12
I don't think I would want to be the one to tell her. In fact my best friend's husband has cheated on her and she found out and told me, I was ready to kick his butt, but they worked it out and she forgave him. If he did it again, and I found out before she did, then yes I would tell her because I love her and I wouldn't let her be taken for a fool. But I would be taking the risk of losing her if she forgave him.
@stary1 (6622)
• United States
28 Jan 12
swissheart I think I would talk to the cheater first if I knew them fairly well.....but yes I would probably tell the one being cheated on..