Why did you fall in love with your spouse?

Vietnam
February 7, 2012 3:06am CST
Everyone usually say that they don't know why I could get married to my present husband. We have many things which are very different. And I had many man whom pursue me and they seem to surpass him. But I fell in love with him only because he dared to say "I love you" without any being shy. He didn't think about the obstacles between us. He did not calculate things such as money, family circumstances etc ... when he love me. He always believe that he can make me happiness. How about you?
3 responses
@ShyBear88 (18070)
• United States
8 Feb 12
Good question but I don't know. I was always told when you truly love someone you don't know why you love them but you just do. Its like when you have kids and you see or hold your baby for the first time you just automatically are in love with them and you need them in your life to make things better and more complete. I can't explain why I love my husband or why I'm with him. All I know is I don't feel that way with any other person in this world next to my daughter. He makes me feel like me and I don't have to pretend around him at all.
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• Vietnam
9 Feb 12
I'm too. I have not known why I love my husband. But I sometimes think about our past, I knew some reasons which made me choosing her instead of other persons :)
@ShyBear88 (18070)
• United States
10 Feb 12
Well when I look at mine and my husband's past all I see us being together in some odd way or another. It was like pretty much we where meant for each other. We went to the same high school. We also had the same group of friends that kept us in contact even after high school. Friends out us together we lived right down the road from each other.
• Jacksonville, Florida
1 Mar 12
I fell in love with my husband because he put my feelings first and was an amazing listener. He was always good at comforting me too which I love. We have been through many things and we have struggled financially our whole relationship but our love is stronger than the obstacles. =)
• Jacksonville, Florida
1 Mar 12
I fell in love with my husband because he put my feelings first and was an amazing listener. He was always good at comforting me too which I love. We have been through many things and we have struggled financially our whole relationship but our love is stronger than the obstacles. =)